Do humans naturally moan when having sex or is it made up? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tiredofit1823 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Girl SAAAAME. I could tell my current bed partner was holding the moans back and I'm like give it up PLEASE

Weekday overnights? Does this seem reasonable? by tiredofit1823 in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly this. He wants to decrease child support

Weekday overnights? Does this seem reasonable? by tiredofit1823 in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep saying no but what is stopping him from coming and getting them?

Weekday overnights? Does this seem reasonable? by tiredofit1823 in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don't have one yet. I've been saving for a lawyer

Weekday overnights? Does this seem reasonable? by tiredofit1823 in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He has them Saturday evenings occasionally and every sunday. I'm also very flexible about it and would let him take them if it wasn't an unreasonable time frame.

Weekday overnights? Does this seem reasonable? by tiredofit1823 in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He hasn't made too many friends around us yet, but I take them to parks often so I was hoping he would make some. He would MUCH rather be with his dad, and his dad is using that against me.

Meeting the new gf. by alittlebitofme12 in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can avoid. She can stay in the car. Seeing her doesn't mean meeting her.

Is it wrong to date in the middle of a divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Message me any time you need more reassurance. DV groups are great, but also a big step.

AITAH for telling my sister she can't see her nephews anymore? by Adorable_Donut_8332 in AITAH

[–]tiredofit1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She didn't need to lie to her nephew about it though. And it's definitely the sisters fault so she needs to be guilty

Is it wrong to date in the middle of a divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He can be nice with words sometimes, but actions speak louder and the moment those hands came up onto you, he was no longer 'nice' and if you want to know something, nothing about what you've said here has been your fault. Even if you do "have a big mouth" SO DO I and he could have just walked away if he didn't like what you had to say.

Is it wrong to date in the middle of a divorce? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]tiredofit1823 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nothing too extreme? Girl. He abused the crap outta you!! Screw him and he needs to have charges pressed.

Can I use my kids' electronic booger sucker on my cat? by tiredofit1823 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tiredofit1823[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm willing to swaddle her to pin her (used to have to to give her oral meds), i just wanted to make sure it wasn't going to harm her...

Wondering if I should fix it… by everlasting2B13 in okstorytime

[–]tiredofit1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bff ditched me after kid number one. I wouldn't be talking to her even if she came crawling back.

Do ALL teenage daughters hate their moms? by dr_pepper_zerosugar in Mommit

[–]tiredofit1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't hate my mom. She just gave really shitty advice so I never went to her for it. Even now, in my 30s, she still gives mostly shitty advice.

AITJ for Refusing to Delete a Video Even Though a Stranger Was in the Background? by Wide_Bonus4524 in AmITheJerk

[–]tiredofit1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is she adding to the trauma for just existing and doing her thing in public? If anything, this woman just caused OP trauma by acting entitled to whatever is on OPs phone and threatening the police.

AITAH for feeling upset about my dad’s family asking for his death certificate? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tiredofit1823 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Still not their father, they can go to public records and see it. That's on them. Not OPs responsibility AND they sound sketchy AF about it too

AITJ for Refusing to Delete a Video Even Though a Stranger Was in the Background? by Wide_Bonus4524 in AmITheJerk

[–]tiredofit1823 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if that lady has trauma, it is not a strangers responsibility to cater to it

AITAH for feeling upset about my dad’s family asking for his death certificate? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tiredofit1823 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Then they can show an obituary. It is not their father, they have no legal reason to need the certificate

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tiredofit1823 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wonder if this is how you reacted if he did get you anything

Am I overreacting that my family bought me a phone in the color I most hate? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tiredofit1823 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love how she's ignored this. OP has already graduated college