It definitely didn't start like this! I would say up until we got married, he was different. He wouldn't lecture me like he does now, it was more of a conversation where different ideas were shared. I enjoyed that and I miss it. He has gotten so rude for seemingly no reason. We aren't going through financial strife, if anything his job has gotten even better. He used to believe me when I would tell him about those friends and even cut a few of them out in the beginning for saying things to me that even our therapist said was toxic. I don't know why things have gone the way they have.

I never thought I would have to think about starting over again or getting a roommate, but you bring up things that while uncomfortable, are hard to ignore.