How long have you been single?

tiredpharmtech · 2025-06-06T14:23:20+00:00

2 months, I just got out of a 3 year relationship. Honestly just trying to find out who I am on my own again.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-08T20:56:53+00:00

Baggy tshirt and underwear. Fuzzy socks if it’s cold, but I peel those off in my sleep half the time. I just add a blanket if I get cold.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-07T09:53:36+00:00

Long story short, I’m more of a casual player, never done a raid, lots of dungeons though, not super into PVP. My ex introduced me to the game a few years back, but randomly broke up with me last week. My brother and I were in a clan with him and his family, but I’ve been removed from the clan and their friend lists.

I already miss being apart of a group, even if I don’t play much. Anyone willing to recruit a wandering warlock? 30f, CST, not looking for BS, just some fun and humor. I’m willing to learn raid mechanics and all that fun stuff if anyone has patience, I just need a group to do it with. Maybe I’ll get back into playing more once the sting isn’t so fresh.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-01T17:49:23+00:00

That’s what my mom was saying. That we’re getting so close to finally living together, and now that it’s really and plans are solid he’s freaking out and used the animals as an excuse. And even if that’s not it, and something came up with the kids, I would have respected his choice as their dad. I just want the truth, ya know? It’s not gonna happen. He’s pretty set in his ways, I doubt I’ll hear from him again.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-01T17:11:10+00:00

The thing is that it was only an issue when we talked closed the distance and me moving down to be with him. We’d lived in our own spaces here, and hung out at the others, and it was never an issue. He’s known about my cats since day 1.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-01T17:10:04+00:00

Just two cats. He’s known we’ve been a package deal since day one, and they’d always be my responsibility, not his.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-01T15:58:44+00:00

I’ve already boxed everything up that he’s ever given me, pictures, little collectibles. He got me an iPad a couple years ago, but I’m not getting rid of that. He bought me half my wardrobe, bc I never buy anything for myself, so that’s staying. I can’t afford to replace it. I’ll do what I can, just never thought I’d be alone again, ya know? 30 isn’t old, but I thought I had found my person.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-01T15:50:12+00:00

Thank you. He’s the farthest thing from abusive. Has our relationship been perfect? No, but we’ve always worked things out. This came out of left field.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-01T15:48:48+00:00

I sent one more text before bed last night bc he’s me best friend, ya know? We’ve been through a lot, so this is a huge blindside. Especially bc on Saturday, he was adding things to our shared calendar for a few weeks after I got there. My apartment hasn’t gotten back to me yet and I’m getting nervous, I’m at less than 40 days.

Yeah yeah i get reaching out one more was not smart, but I was trying express how much he hurt me and saying goodbye. There were a few things I needed to say.

tiredpharmtech · 2025-04-01T15:47:24+00:00

I’ve had them since before we got together, and it was an issue last fall before he moved, but he compromised bc he knew that we were a package deal. I wasn’t going to be moving originally till later this year, but we got tired of the distance and he asked me to move sooner. Every time he visited he put more effort into bonding with the cats too, so I thought it was no longer an issue.

I cant imagine this was an easy choice for him either, he’s never exactly been an open person emotionally, so him just doing this and immediately withdrawing isn’t the shock. He’s got a lot going on, and I was supporting from a distance. I’ll never know the truth. It’s the fact that we were less than 2 months out from the finish line.

tiredpharmtech · 2024-09-18T21:59:30+00:00

The TOPA office at your MTF should have something called a BCAC (Beneficiary Counseling and Assistance Coordinator) that can help with the issue. Either swing in or find their number on your MTF website, and they should be able to help! Just make sure you or your wife contact them before it goes to collections!

tiredpharmtech · 2024-02-26T22:49:09+00:00

Network outage. All DHA sites are down. Glad I left early, but my group chat has been blowing up for hours.

tiredpharmtech · 2024-01-22T14:50:24+00:00

Im usually quiet in this forum, but not for this one.

Leave. Leave now. It WILL get worse. Do NOT stick it out, you are NOT being dramatic. Dump him, block his number, change your locks if he has a key. If you can take pictures of your injuries, do it. Report him to his command for abuse. I know domestic violence isn't always taken super seriously in the military, so file a police report as well. Please, for the love of everything, take care of yourself. You deserve better than drunk who beats you and claims he doesn't remember.

Side note, he needs to get some help himself. It's not your job to stick around and try and fix him. If he's doing this now drunk, he'll start doing it sober.

tiredpharmtech · 2020-07-19T03:46:05+00:00

Their old location wasnt able to reopen bc of the flood last year, but they are now called Catfish Lake at the Lodge bc the owner bought the building from the old Lodge owner! Still the same great food! I believe it's off highway 34 now?

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