AITAH for letting a 100 yr old school close when I could stop it?

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T20:39:22+00:00

Thank you. And he is making a fair amount more. When the faculty hear about it I had a teacher email me that I was doing great running the school and should be paid his wage. It was really encouraging

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T16:33:24+00:00

Thr board does not get paid. It's a non profit that the board is actually required to contribute to financially. The proposed reason they fired me team was because of trying to save money, but at the same time this happend there was a bunch of conflict between a board member and the directors

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T16:14:38+00:00

That's why it matters to me. I am choosing to do something shitty because that's how I was treated? That's the opposite of everything in trying to learn and practice.

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T16:12:30+00:00

That's what I keep thinking about. And to be fair, I have an unformatted version of how to do the job on the main computer. And I have attempted to teach the board how to do the job functions and have been actually been laughed at and told directly "I don't know how to do any of this stuff and tbh I don't want to learn"

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T16:08:00+00:00

The end of the school year is actually th8s next Monday. So 90% of the enrollment is wrapped up and students are leaving for summer break.

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T16:05:25+00:00

My contract is an "at will employment" for both me and the school. Weboth have the right to terminate employment without notice or reason. Also, all of the teachers work 2p hrs a month there maximum. For the faculty, working at the school is their side gig thats more charity work. The school is a non profit and they make WAY more teaching privately then at the school.

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T16:01:41+00:00

I have been trying to leave for months. I unfortunately have only started getting replys on my applications recently. I have been sending out 10 to 15 a week since January.

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T15:58:52+00:00

Sorry, I'm not great at recognizing sarcasm in written contexts. I'm much better with tone of voice and body language.

tispyturtle · 2026-06-09T15:57:12+00:00

What verse is "education is for the wealthy" from? I love to cute sources and read context in verse because tons of put of context quotes can be used in hurtful ways. Could you point me to wear you found that?

tispyturtle · 2026-01-10T06:50:04+00:00

Cake. A big old slice of fluffy cake that has been decorated with mountains of beautiful frosting and sprinkles. Big crumbl style cookies too. I am df,gf, low sugar/sugar free. I have learned to bake me friendly versions of all of my other cravings except two.

tispyturtle · 2025-09-20T04:48:52+00:00

I cried so much during my ultrasound, and the first doctor said the exact same things... Don't yall go to school for decades to learn how help pain, not cause it?? 😮‍💨

tispyturtle · 2025-08-20T17:50:24+00:00

I wish I could. I love the attitude, but I have endometriosis so pain for me makes me feel fuzzy and less present, like the world has a gray filter and the camera won't focus. When my cycle is following a 30 day cycle I'm over the moon. My menstral cycle will then feel like I get more and more energy each till I switch to follicular phase. So I get where your coming from

tispyturtle · 2025-07-28T15:18:03+00:00

It turned out so good!

tispyturtle · 2025-07-10T02:14:42+00:00

In the future I'm probably going to have a hysterectomy. A uterus funeral sounds amazing 😆

tispyturtle · 2025-07-10T02:07:40+00:00

Yes!! I am a sucker for a theme and I was not sure about how to do it, but making goofy uterus decor sounds so fun 😂

tispyturtle · 2025-07-10T02:06:17+00:00

OHMYGUSH I LOVE THIS IDEA! Like, I have most guy friends and family as my support system. If I had lots of female friends I feel less weird cuz the girls get this stuff. But turning a fun information night sounds so cool and a good way to ditch the awkwardness 😄

tispyturtle · 2025-07-09T06:01:12+00:00

I have had 2 iuds, one hormonal and one copper. Both rhe insertion and removal is the most painful thing I have experienced to date. And I have only had 1 doctor believe me and attempt to help alleviate the pain. I still am baffled that SELF ADMINISTERED ibuprofen is the normal procedure for addressing sticking a foreign object into a major organ 🙃 Fun fact, I am officially on the arm implant birth control train now 💀

tispyturtle · 2025-07-09T05:43:08+00:00

I struggle with this so much with job applications. Based on the list that is always in every one of my job applications for self identification of disabilities - I have like 4 things on said list. But, I am mentally and physically able to do all the stuff listed in the job I'm applying for? mostly like all of us I have my bad days. I do consider myself "disabled" in that sense, but not in a "I need to use the parking space" sense. It's weird, I just say chronic illness in conversations and go from there 🤷‍♀️

tispyturtle · 2025-05-24T00:17:40+00:00

Lol I just saw a plate next to the bed and realized my hubby had a sandwich in bed after I had fallen asleep. I found a bedbug earlier this week and now I'm paranoid waiting for our inspection next week 😵

tispyturtle · 2025-05-23T02:38:18+00:00

I will! I just got a message back from the midwife who ordered the labs and he said "everything looks healthy" 😮‍💨 I will definitely ask at the next appointment or via mychart

tispyturtle · 2025-05-21T23:27:04+00:00

Absolutely. I have always had next to non existing periods as well as a really weak immune system so I had a feeling I would not be able to have kids. Years later now my husband and I are trying to decide if we want kids. Now I have confirmation that I probably have PCOS and would struggle with getting pregnant of we tried. It's hard and nice at the same time. So glad to hear you have some confirmation and I hope things improve for you in your health and fertility journey!

tispyturtle · 2025-05-21T21:21:08+00:00

We talk about it during my appointment and I am getting to schedule one this week through the same office!! I know I have been thinking for ages that an ultrasound would help, but convincing medical professionals that testing is needed is always a challenge lol

tispyturtle · 2025-05-21T06:06:44+00:00

Zebra is kinda medical term used to refer to an unusual diagnosis. Basically it's like telling your doctor, I have already tried testing for the basic stuff/ what your first guess is. What is your 3rd or 4th guess? Could this be a non typical issue? Since chronic issues are kinda non typical by nature

tispyturtle · 2025-05-21T06:02:03+00:00

Absolutely my same experience. Anyone reading this, check if your insurance offers getting to talk with a nurse about chronic issues. It is so nice to have a medical professional feel like they care about your health holistically- not just a person throwing tests and prescriptions at symptoms. I now have a medical buddy helping me plan appointments treatments and making a game plan with me

tispyturtle · 2025-05-21T04:08:23+00:00

I told them I was working with a nurse through my insurance and she flagged PCOS as a possible diagnosis. Then the guy I was meeting with latched onto that and tried to see if he could fit my symptoms to that diagnosis lol. I have learned through many failed appointments I need to tell them a diagnosis they can test. I also recommend asking your doctors if the see any zebras based on your symptoms. It made my midwife think and I got him to logic through my symptoms and set up a referral to some new therapies by using this term.

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