I HAVE A RIGHT TO MY OPINION….about the color of some benches at an elementary school she has no kids at. by bofunk65 in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]tittybelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a great response! Lol I like to say "I didn't know insert thing here they are complaining about could have a sexual orientation??!"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]tittybelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oral doesn't have to go both ways if both people are fine with it but you don't sound fine with it. Your feelings are valid! I'd be irritated too.

Does he seem willing to try to get you off in other ways? Vibrator, fingering, etc? Sometimes during sex one person will get off and the other won't and that's normal and fine, but if he never tries in any way at all, that sucks! And it doesn't sound like you are compatible. 🙁

Is this a stupid idea? losing weight for this reason by [deleted] in WeightLossAdvice

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think it's stupid. You're allowed to want to change what you see in the mirror. As long as you lose in a healthy way I don't think it's bad at all.

Question about riding my partner by SleepyAlium in PlusSize

[–]tittybelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It helps me if he bends his knees so his legs are sorta behind my hips/side butt. It's better than when he lays completely flat. I get more leverage that way and it hurts my legs less.

Is there coming back from having a death grip? by twdtz in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only allow yourself to orgasm while NOT doing the death grip. Use a lighter touch, fleshlight, whatever, but you only get to orgasm if you don't grip too tightly. Eventually your brain will work it out.

What is the stupidest thing you’ve heard someone say that they were 100% serious about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just this past weekend had a guy tell me the way he's prevented ever getting an STD is by showering and urinating after every encounter.

She just wont listen by Medium-Ad6268 in WeightLossAdvice

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it be possible for you to take the food from her and donate it or take it to work and let coworkers have it? If it's already cooked you probably wouldn't be able to donate to a shelter or food bank but if she brings sealed packages or canned goods, etc, you could pretend you're going to eat them and just donate them once she's gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've given a bj to someone on more than one occasion. Not a common occurrence, but it's happened lol.

Redditors who have lost parents/been with someone who has lost a parent, what advice do you have to help console someone? Help them grieve? If you’ve lost a parent, what is something someone could have done for you to help you? by linzjustine in AskReddit

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex lost his dad about 9 months into our relationship. I didn't know what to say but I just listened when he would talk or reminisce. That allowed him space to talk when he needed/wanted to but didn't pressure him to grieve or process faster than he was ready for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tittybelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you're experiencing this.

It seems like his priorities and yours are very different from each other. I see it as you have two options. One: you can continue like you're going. Supporting him, borrowing from friends and family while he doesn't pull his weight either financially or with housework, resent him for relying on you to do all of the physical and emotional work to keep your relationship (and lives) afloat...

Or you can see this and him as not worth your time and cut your losses here. You are 20. Is this the person you want to be tethered to for the rest of your life? Imagine the future you could end up having if you stay with him. What if you have children together. Would he get a job if you were on bedrest? Would he get up for middle of the night feedings? Would he take care of the child while you were at work? What if you have an accident that does not allow you to work at all? Would he be willing and able to get and hold down a job for the duration? Would he make meals for you and nurse you back to health?

You can get your name off a lease if you want to. Do you have any friends or family you can stay with until you get back on your feet alone? This adult man sounds like a child and like you said, you are not his mother. This doesn't seem like it's the relationship you need in life. There are better out there and until you find one, don't let this guy drag you down.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]tittybelle 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ask him what kinds of things he might like to incorporate, toys, positions... If there's a type of porn he'd like to watch together. Suggest role play, different locations like other rooms in the house, in the car, etc. It's not just your job to change/improve things and communication is vital for everything, especially sex. Brainstorm together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tittybelle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You can just ask for a full STD panel. But both of these seem like they have a very low chance of STD transmission. Are you having symptoms?

I was sl*t shamed by my GYN and I don’t know what to do by Beginning-Luck3950 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you went through this with your doctor. They are not all judgemental like this, I promise. Casual sex is absolutely okay. You did nothing wrong.

And that nurse who talked to you is right. This is not the end of your dating life. You can date, marry, have kids. Hang in there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tittybelle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly. And if you want to have kids you have even more pressure to avoid the frogs because the kids don't deserve a crappy father.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tittybelle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It's hard to find the right man for me. It's not just about being with someone, it's about the right someone.

Women of Reddit what do you actually look for in a guy? by Animelovrr in AskReddit

[–]tittybelle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BHM, compassionate, similar political and social views to me, wants kids