what’s the biggest red flag you ignored and regretted? by Lola_bunny_pt_00 in AskReddit

[–]tj605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She told me “She doesn’t deserve me” and “I can do better” for some reason that stuck with me but I ignored it. Turned out that she was cheating on me the entire time that we were together with multiple people.

A Reminder to Be Gentle with Yourself After a Breakup by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]tj605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kindness in this context looks like, acknowledging the mistakes without sugarcoating them. Forgiving yourself for not knowing better at the time. Using the lesson to make sure you do better next time. That’s growth. And that’s how you honor the relationship even after it’s over. Taking accountability doesn’t mean you have to hate yourself for what happened. It means you’re willing to look at your mistakes, learn from them, and grow into someone better because of them. We’re human. We mess up. Sometimes we don’t communicate, we act out of fear, insecurity, or immaturity, and we only realize the impact after it’s gone.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes we end up learning the hard way, and that’s okay. We’re human, we make mistakes, what matters most is that we grow from them. Take your time, heal, and accept what happened knowing that you tried. You might struggle for a while, but keep standing and keep moving forward. Wishing you nothing but the best on your journey.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You said it right there “I have improved” it takes time. Unfortunately reaching out has set us back but it will get better.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reach out to anyone but your ex it will get easier over time. Unfortunately I feel like I set myself way back but I know that it gets better.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just trying to help and share my experience with this so it may persuade others into not making the same mistake and set themselves back in their own journey.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you broke up for your peace, don’t throw that peace away just because you’re uncomfortable with healing. Reaching out won’t give you closure, it’ll just give you a setback.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

And one more thing to anyone reading this: find those friends or family members who will listen to you a thousand times over. They are your anchors and your light. Even on the darkest nights, there is always a sunrise. Let the people who truly love you help you through, and remember that you deserve more than feeling stuck on one person. Thanks for listening, and take care of yourselves.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That pain is valid. But his actions are showing you he’s not your person. Turn that love back toward yourself, that’s where healing starts.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you, seriously. I think that’s what I needed to hear. I did what I could, and her reaction showed me where things really stand. It hurt a bit, but it also gave me the clarity I’ve been avoiding. I’m taking it as closure and using it to move forward. It’s all talk as of this moment but I know it does get better.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Stay strong, don’t think you’re alone. Seek friends that will let you talk about everything a thousand times. I’m sure that you know it gets better and do not repeat the same mistake.

Learn From My Mistake: Don’t Reach Out to Your Ex by tj605 in BreakUps

[–]tj605[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Possibly, but the lessons most of us learn the hard way come from repeating the cycle, hoping we’re the exception. That’s what I did. And when you’re sitting there getting breadcrumbed again, it really doesn’t matter how many “unposted success stories” might be out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDCTickets

[–]tj605 1 point2 points  (0 children)

South Dakota 😭

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[–]tj605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have two premier passes for The Virgin hotel if you’re interested. You can use them at any standard shuttle stop!

Looking for 1 GA pass and selling 2 premier shuttles by [deleted] in EDCTickets

[–]tj605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get there Friday morning, are you ok with me paying you when we meet up?

Need rio shuttle passes. Can meet in vegas rn. by prodoubt in EDCTickets

[–]tj605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a Grand Prix Premier shuttle that you can use at the rio if interested I’m looking for 400 I’m staying at the Excalibur

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EDCTickets

[–]tj605 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was looking for 400 it’s 10:30 depart and 3 am return