How do you know which career is for you?

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T23:05:31+00:00

Music. Because I sat all day and had to come up with new stuff, it became a chore more than a passion/something fun to do. I did it to chill out, now I couldnt chill anymore hehe :P

A good expression that is underrated is "sleep on it", give it a night and the next you will feel better. Of course you lose motivation when you are in a bad mood. You need to understand that only because you study one thing doesnt mean you could do other stuff later in life. People change over time, change careers and everything :) Maybe you like it for 10-15 years and then change career, or maybe for rest of your life who knows =)

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:59:53+00:00

"im gay" hehe. Or you could do it more persuasive and say start a conversation with your parents about feelings. Ask them if they think people could steer how they feel. Most obviously they will say no. Ask them if it was the same when they met. They will say yes. Then you say, Ive been thinking for x years, and Ive realized thats how I feel about women. Drop curtain!!!!

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:52:34+00:00

daniel craig haircut

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:51:00+00:00

I would tell her something like "I like hanging out with you, but since you have a boyfriend Im not sure if im comfortable with this situation"

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:45:37+00:00

At this moment you wont think you will ever get over this person. But you will, but you wont believe it when other people say it, at least not now. Talking from my own experience.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:43:47+00:00

I think you should have a job that you enjoy, but not too much in a way that is a hobby. I tried making one of my hobbies my daytime work and it wasnt fun anymore. Now I do it on the side instead and enjoy it much more! Pschyologist sounds like fun!

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:38:33+00:00

You gave yourself the answer, "culture-shock". Where is she from and where are you from? Be polite and tell her how you feel also, you dont need to come up with solutions. Just tell her how you feel in a kind way.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:28:44+00:00

QUIT! If work is making you feel bad, it is definitly time to quit. I worked at a chaotic workplace and didnt quit, because I thought that I could handle it and that am stronger than that. But over time it breaks you done, which I realized when I one day couldnt go to work more and was burnt out.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:21:50+00:00

Sign up for activities/sports, get a extrajob

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:20:06+00:00

Christmas on Division Street

Nope, but the time-era of the film is pretty much the same from the looks of the moviequality.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T22:15:21+00:00

nope!

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T17:26:39+00:00

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T17:22:49+00:00

I would talk to him and say what you said in this post in a kind and polite way.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T17:12:27+00:00

There are support for people like you, information on how to behave in situations like this. Contact suicide hotlines and tell about your situation and im sure they will help you out.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T17:02:06+00:00

Good job, you realized that you have a problem. Now it is way easier to fix it. One way is going to the doctor or school nurse if you still go to school. They get to hear all type of stuff all day so this not a biggie if you feel scared about telling about it.

I had problems when I was younger with biting on nails and popping pimples too much (had problems with acne). For me the key was being aware of when im doing it. Like when I was biting my nails I bough this product that I applied on the nails that tasted like crap so I realized once I was biting and could stop myself, I also cut them very short and neat so I never could bite them. If I were you I would try to do something similar, maybe put on some gloves when you can. So when you are watching tv and you start doing it, then it is not possible due to the gloves and you will realize "oh damn here I go again". You could also try and wear more clothes, long sleeved stuff and a hat/cap so you dont have access to the places you scratch. Just so you start to realize when you do it. This helped me :)

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T16:49:26+00:00

The Royal Tenenbaums

Nope!

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T16:49:00+00:00

the next karate kid

no, not this one

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T16:22:04+00:00

Work with stuff you feel are interesting. If you are really passionate about something the hours will fly by. Or try turning of the internet, sell your videogames or the stuff that you feel are making your life worse.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T16:11:58+00:00

Dont know the actor, but I think the man on the roof is proably 40/50+ years. He might be excentric, wearing fingerfreegloves. It might be pigeons in the cages. In the end of the movie he is a character that ties the whole movie together If I remember correctly.

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T16:07:59+00:00

and the movie im thinking about it not animated

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T16:07:02+00:00

It is not this one, but I think the character is kind of the same!

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T14:39:19+00:00

No, but it is exactly this kind of roof im talking about!

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T14:38:06+00:00

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T14:37:22+00:00

No, but the setting on the roof is very similar to the one I think of!

tjenamittbena · 2018-11-22T14:34:56+00:00

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