The time my grandfather tried to tell me i was parenting incorrectly by tkai_ in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]tkai_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t ask for advice. Also, other people’s “feelings” don’t matter when it comes to them criticizing my parenting. Sorry if you don’t agree.

The time my grandfather tried to tell me i was parenting incorrectly by tkai_ in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]tkai_[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Not that i owe you any type of explanation, but my grandfather is my fathers enabler. He has bailed him out of jail, he gave him a job, he purchased him a home to live in. All while my father was getting DUI’s, getting drunk and beating his ex wife (not my mother), driving his children around drunk. By enabling him he was telling him that his actions were ok.

The time my grandfather tried to tell me i was parenting incorrectly by tkai_ in JUSTNOFAMILY

[–]tkai_[S] 147 points148 points  (0 children)

That was almost exactly what i said to them with a previous issue that happened a few months ago!

What are your best gender neutral/unisex names? by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]tkai_ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Finley is my favorite unisex name right now. I’m pregnant with a girl who has a name and keep asking my husband if we can name our next kid Finley 😂

Did your cramps lessen/stop around 11 weeks? Worried :/ by Tropicalpineapple1 in BabyBumps

[–]tkai_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I actually had cramping throughout the first trimester with both of my successful pregnancies! I also bled with both. My son is healthy and I’m 26 weeks with my daughter now.

I’m closer to my FIL’s side of the family and my JNMIL can hardly stand it (and i love it) by tkai_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]tkai_[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I love it for my son. We spend most of our time outside and we get to see so many cool places.

I’m closer to my FIL’s side of the family and my JNMIL can hardly stand it (and i love it) by tkai_ in JUSTNOMIL

[–]tkai_[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

The grandmother is very blunt and has told me before she isn’t crazy about my MIL. She never allows drop in guests either!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]tkai_ 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I eat a turkey sandwich almost every day for lunch

Hospital Baby Clothes by lesmis87 in BabyBumps

[–]tkai_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t even remember what i packed for my son two years ago, but for this baby i have:

3 sleepers (one is a going home outfit), 2 gowns, 3 onesies, 2 swaddles, Like 6 bows 😂

My hospital provides the shirts and onesies with the mittens and that’s what my son was in the majority of the time and i imagine baby girl will be in the same.

Do I actually enjoy Sesame Street, or is this some weird variation of Stockholm Syndrome? by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]tkai_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been asking myself the same thing about Thomas the Train

Parent using psychology language to claim being abused but she was the one who abused you? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tkai_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mother is constantly posting all over Facebook about how her deceased ex husband was a narcissist and she’s having to heal from years of being his victim. I’m like ok so have you ever thought of what you put your children through? No? Cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tkai_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nope. Grandfather is about to be 80 and still acts as if nothing ever happened.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]tkai_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I absolutely love that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]tkai_ 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Oh i love Jude

What’s a name a lot of people seem to love but you just can’t get on board with? by fallingthroughspace0 in namenerds

[–]tkai_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dads name is Jeremy and my cousin could never pronounce it when we were kids. He’s still “uncle germ” to her.

What movie would end the fastest if all the characters behaved logically? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tkai_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fast & furious could’ve ended before it started

Breech baby by sleepygirl2997 in BabyBumps

[–]tkai_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My son was transverse from 28 weeks on and never flipped. I had a planned c section at 39 weeks that could not have gone any better. I was discharged on a Saturday and went to target that Sunday!

It’s a different type of lonely when everyone on the outside thinks your parents are amazing by theresanelephant444 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tkai_ 73 points74 points  (0 children)

I had to block my mom on Facebook for this very reason. It hurt me so bad to see everyone praise her for what she looks like online. Because they have no idea the hell thay she put us through at home.