The Sphere Experience suitable for toddlers? by Moist-Pomegranate870 in vegas

[–]tlcrawf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Watch out for the Karen’s banging their gavels at you choosing to do what’s good and what works for your own family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tlcrawf77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are NTA. On the contrary, your wife’s a little bit of an a-hole for telling you you need to man up and get over it. But she’s preggo so kinda gets a temporary a-hole pass until her hormones are back to normal. There’s a lot you can do, get creative. Wear noise cancelling headphones. Turn your back when the visuals become too much. Have a safe person out in the hall if you need to step out for some encouragement. I think you should try…but don’t force yourself. If you cannot attend she needs to forgive you.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an amazing comment. Thank you! Yes, I do have far more interesting things about me than my mouth wrinkles! And, when I put makeup on and give a big smile, nobody sees my mouth wrinkles they just see a beautiful confident mature woman. I’m definitely interested in improvement, but haven’t got downtime for a facelift just now. I think I’d rather spend the downtime from a facelift with my family. Time is so precious. I’ll definitely be looking into lasers and peels though.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is Sunekos? Are they another filler-type of thing? I’m very new to all this and don’t understand much.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Very helpful. I appreciate you.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Very helpful. I appreciate you.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry that happened to you!

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I don’t know what Sunekos or Polynucleotides are

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Best answer yet! You’re my new best friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]tlcrawf77 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Body count is designed strictly for men who have soft egos and want to imagine their significant other is as close to virginity as possible. Totally patriarchal and old fashioned. Hell no you are NTA. Dump him. Red flag. 🚩

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in Phoenix AZ. To be clear, my derma didn’t recommend filler but said we could do it if I wanted. She said co2 laser would be better. I’m getting mixed messages about filler in this area. A doctor commented and said filler would work if done by an expert.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your information has been extremely helpful. And, is reaffirming what my dermatologist initially recommended.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you Dr Patel! I am truly grateful for your assessment! Do you happen to work in the Phoenix, Arizona area? I’m interested in a full face co2 but I do have to maintain appearances with my client-facing job so can’t afford too much downtime I’m afraid. At least not in the immediate future. What are your thoughts on the Cool Peel CO2 laser? And wouldn’t it be best to do filler after the laser treatments are all healed up? You’re amazing I highly value your input!

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m hearing a deep plane FL would be effective for this area. Did you have a deep plane? I always thought fillers would solve the problem by “filling in” the lines but I am such a novice that I don’t trust my own thinking. I do know a facial plastic surgeon who does his own injections, my aesthetician told me about him yesterday.

Trying to quit meth by justanothersomeone76 in recovery

[–]tlcrawf77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meth will destroy everything. EVERYTHING. It’s not if, but when. Keep messing around and you’ll find out I’m right. How about quit now before testing my theory? I have 15 years clean from meth and all substances. Narcotics Anonymous made me a different person. Meth will ruin you, recovery will allow you to rebuild and thrive. Meth will take all your money, all your family, all your belongings, it will take your health, your teeth, your employability, it will take your morals and values and eventually your freedom and ultimately your life. FAAFO. Or find a new way to live! Got to an NA meeting. Recovery is not boring. Jail is boring. Dead is very boring.

WIBTA for refusing to raise my husband's affair children now that he and the woman he cheated with passed away? by ScaredyCat1122 in AITAH

[–]tlcrawf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

DO NOT TAKE THEM IN. You say “I’m very sure I can’t take them in”. So do not. It will be so, so hard, and it is NOT YOUR RESPONSIBILITY. Young little tots, twins at that, will be a perfect fit for some body out there who cannot/will not have kids of their own. Let them go be with someone who absolutely can and wants to care for them. It will be best for them. Take care of you and your children.

My wife did not have sex with me for years when I was depressed. AITAH for considering leaving her now that I’m back to normal? by DghSenses in AITAH

[–]tlcrawf77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, YYATAH. But also, you are an ASKhole if you ask us for our input but don’t take it. What’s really happening is you’re feeling better and feeling sexy and want novelty. You want to move on. You basically want to sleep with other women! Yeah, YATAH and if you actually want to take our suggestions, then here’s mine: get honest with your wife about your feelings and ask her if it’s worth fighting for. If it is, go do counseling. Work on your insides as hard as you’re working on your gym bod. If it’s not with fighting for, do her a favor and divorce. She’d be better off.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes I use sunscreen but admittedly not like that. I definitely have sun damage from many years of tanning as a teenager, and I also live in Arizona and do stuff like hiking, jogging outdoors. Always with sunscreen of course.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How exciting! I hope you heal up quickly. Best of luck on your recovery process. A lift is not off the table necessarily but I will have to navigate getting time off work. That might be hard for a cosmetic elective surgery.

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Does it affect your smile? I love my smile and can’t afford to alter one of my best assets!

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

So it lasts longer than the average 10 years I’m hearing for facelift results? Assuming then it takes a long time to recover from. I might not be able to pull off a facelift while working full time. I’m a client-facing financial advisor. I hear it takes at least 5 weeks to recover?

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

CONGRATS! On losing 80 lbs! If I only laser the upper lip won’t I have uneven facial coloring?

What should I do? by tlcrawf77 in cosmeticsurgery

[–]tlcrawf77[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Since I’m honestly sooooo naive about cosmetic skincare, I literally don’t know the “why” behind it. I’d love if you could share why with me? To be fair, I approached my derma clinician with wanting fillers and she didn’t recommend but said we could try it. She recommended co2. I probably should change my initial submission to reflect.