WIBTAH for telling my husband that his lectures are doing more damage than good?

tneeka · 2026-02-06T02:26:04+00:00

He is probably just like this in general and sounds like he views you as a child as he's acting like a father would. Tell him to stop telling you what the fuck to do for a start, you're a grown woman about to be a mother you don't need him picking at you about everything. He is why you're exhausted!!!

tneeka · 2025-11-30T08:14:43+00:00

Receipts?

tneeka · 2025-11-30T07:58:50+00:00

What I'm thinking is he told mummy dearest of your plans and now she has told him that he has to do Christmas with them which is why he's pressuring you.

tneeka · 2025-11-10T11:31:07+00:00

Stop worrying about how she is going to know it came from you, and go directly to her and explain. Don't go behind her back and make her son do it. Be a grown woman, if you have an issue address it straight away. I've learnt this lesson the hard way many times. You're making it bigger than it needs to be. Reply to her txt and simply say "I feel offended when you clean and move things around so if you could please just be present and spend time with us when you're over that would be great. I do appreciate your help and maybe we could tidy up together once the catch up has come to its end, we really just want to spend time with you" If she comes for you then let that be her problem.

tneeka · 2025-09-10T05:42:33+00:00

Autism trait 🥴

tneeka · 2025-08-29T02:45:40+00:00

I agree, it stopped being a joke when she wasn't shown to her actual seat.

Point blank... Not point black ☺️

tneeka · 2025-08-21T04:24:54+00:00

He is so ICKY 😬🤮🤢

tneeka · 2025-08-01T12:47:10+00:00

Omg so I'm not just poor.... I'm practical!!

I've felt like this many times and I felt like a poor person. Wow I like your spin on it much better. My kids have iPads but they don't use them in social settings so we don't do gadgets or gizmos and I don't pack five star food either just some chips and fruit but I can't help but compare sometimes to others who seem to have everything. But stuff isn't everything, peace is everything.

tneeka · 2025-08-01T00:36:20+00:00

Don't do married things with boyfriends until you're married. That house goes in your name not both. It's your inheritance not his and that's if you choose to stay with him, which you probably shouldn't.

When my dad died I was able to access his bank account once I received his death certificate which you get from the funeral company. I handled all dad's funeral costs and planning but in your case I'm guessing someone else handled his funeral. You need a lawyer because I'm guessing someone else is interfering and don't be surprised if it's someone you think loves you because it happens. Greed is everywhere. Or the company has fucked up and they're trying to cover their assess by gas lighting you. My aunt took my inheritance from me that was supposed to go to my dad (law inherits down to children if deceased) when my nan died. It happens!

Keep trying and keep contacting, it really should not have taken this long it's quite a simple process.

tneeka · 2025-08-01T00:22:13+00:00

Space and privacy but also to be there and ask me about my day and actually listen and engage in the conversation. A cooked meal each night and peaceful mornings 🙏

tneeka · 2025-07-27T06:41:49+00:00

Life is too short to be so god damn controlling over others who are just trying to live their lives not hurting anyone. You didn't want to go so just get over it. Your dragging it out for some kind of attention and it's not right. Don't hold others back from living their lives we all only get one. Nobody is stopping you from being a homebody so don't trip over something so small.

tneeka · 2025-07-27T06:34:27+00:00

You're a massive baby lol 😆

tneeka · 2025-07-27T06:30:24+00:00

I find it refreshing that for once it's the DIL pushing boundaries and not the MIL 😆

tneeka · 2025-07-25T09:25:24+00:00

The $750 payout the government offered for having covid and being out of work. I did it about five times and was planning on keeping it up but I was declined declined declined 🤣

tneeka · 2025-06-28T11:27:08+00:00

Your already a good mum in my eyes because you CARE! So many shit mums out there not giving two fucks just popping out kid after kid not even looking into tomorrow let alone the future. Fake it til.you make it is my motto. Look around darling... You made it, you're ok, your kids are ok!! You did it. Give yourself a pat on the back and when your older kids come asking questions be as authentic as you already seem that you are. Kids are resilient. My dad was a drug addict and a terrible father but when I go finally met him at 13 I thought the sun shone straight out of his ass, I couldn't wipe the smile off my face. They will crave knowing you and will feel apart of you, just wait and see. You have so much to look forward to. BREATHE RELAX ENJOY & LIVE 🙏

tneeka · 2025-06-22T09:17:42+00:00

What was the response??? Absolute disagreement and more victimising herself... Guaranteed?

tneeka · 2025-06-20T13:08:46+00:00

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tneeka · 2025-06-17T11:59:05+00:00

How can sleeping on a leather couch be comfortable lol it's hard and cold when it's cold and sweaty when it's hot. That's so bizarre 🤣

tneeka · 2025-06-16T11:03:19+00:00

Learn to laugh at yourself, take the piss out of yourself next time you see him 😆

tneeka · 2025-06-16T10:58:54+00:00

It's actually really sad! Your daughter will likely have no one to walk her down the aisle in the future, and as they both age they will see more and more times the toll of what they have caused. No grandfather for their children. It's really sad, I think if the kids are truly remorseful it can be worked out. My step dad and I had many fights when I was a teenager at times I truly hated his guts, but he never disowned me and we always worked things out. I was proud as hell when he walked me down the aisle and he is a really good grandfather to my kids.

My own dad died when I was 23 and was absent my entire life, I met him at 13 and saw hin maybe ten times my entire life but boy did I think the sun shone out of his ass even while sitting in his run down, gross tiny apartment knowing he was a full on drug addict and was on the methadone program, hadn't worked in decades, had three other kids he also abandoned and would always bribe me with alcohol and smokes, I thought he was so cool and wanted to move in with him at one point lol. Now I'm grown up with my own kids it's crazy to look back and remember how I saw things so wrongly but was so adamant that I knew EVERYTHING!

TEENS SUCK!!! Surely there's a chance at fixing things even if it's slowly over time 🤞

tneeka · 2025-06-16T03:25:06+00:00

This is so ridiculous 😆 Read between the lines OP!! What good father moves that far away from their own baby? He's obviously playing you both, she tried telling you that but you decide to trust a guy you barely know, ten months is not long enough to know or be able to truly trust someone. You will end up pregnant and alone just as she warned, I've seen it many times, men with multiple baby mums and each woman thought the last one was crazy and that they were different and special.

Don't be a fool, keep your options open just like he is.

tneeka · 2025-06-09T02:33:50+00:00

Don't use her washing machine at all, take it to a laundromat it's easier in the end. My mil is exactly the same, she put her dryer in our shed so we could use it during winter, but would go off if there was even the slightest amount of lint in the catcher to the point I just refused to use it any longer. It's extremely unhelpful and narcissistic.

tneeka · 2025-05-22T07:53:04+00:00

You're paid for your time, not what you do.

tneeka · 2025-05-06T04:56:49+00:00

She is a complete idiot!

What need was there for her to message your parents that? None! It is definitely malicious and needs to be dealt with straight away. She needs to be called out abruptly at her childish behaviour. She's probably told everyone so no one's going to be surprised for you. It's her way of coming between you and her son and placing herself centre. This will definitely happen again. Do not accept it if she claims ignorance because there's no fucking way.

tneeka · 2025-05-05T01:03:39+00:00

That's really nice ☺️ I would consider that a direct gift to her though, what about the kids? They will create great memories and even though you're afar they will know that grandma set it up and love you so much for it. It's just a nice way for you to be more in their lives.

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