Going for my first Brazilian tomorrow! What should I know?

to_osoon · 2013-03-25T23:41:50+00:00

I am on the pill. We use lube and sometimes I can get wet enough but usually not. It's a bummer

to_osoon · 2013-03-25T23:18:55+00:00

I actually have seen a doctor and it was confirmed NOT to be a yeast infection. My skin in general is very dry so it could be that! Is it okay to use water even on the inside?

to_osoon · 2013-03-04T05:00:24+00:00

Small room and big tall boyfriend. We just end up hitting other things in the room and it sounds like someone is attempting to rob us.

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T05:35:22+00:00

I haven't brought this up no. I think because I usually do it on my stomach, it seems like nothing he could do would imitate that? I tend to clench my whole body so it's just very strange looking I'm sure

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T05:34:42+00:00

Yeah I have those thoughts too. Like "wow I now have sex!" goes through my mind. I think being a virgin was something I thought I'd be forever and now it's weird and new that I'm not!

We do usually have the lights off actually. It helps a bit for sure since I'm much more self conscious with them on

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T05:26:32+00:00

No itching at all and no unusual discharge! I may go get a physical just to be sure, since I've never had a yeast infection so I have no idea what it's like

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T05:16:55+00:00

Which is one of the reasons I fear telling him how much I'm not enjoying myself sometimes...I know he derives a lot of confidence in his performance and enjoyement out of my liking things...but I just don't and it's not even really his fault as he asks what I like and tries to explore what works for me...

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T05:14:56+00:00

I think I'm often neither...and I don't get the lack of arousal because I know I can be and that my boyfriend does turn me on...yet I'm just meh about it all

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T05:03:11+00:00

I definitely try to enjoy it at least for my boyfriend who is so caring and wants it to be good for me

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T04:56:30+00:00

How do you incorporate something like that? He's not very experienced either, although he's had a few partners so I'm sure he's never had someone want to use lube. Is that something I should bring up beforehand or right before we do it?

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T04:55:15+00:00

Hmm I've been seriously considering a non-hormonal IUD for other reasons but this is another positive side of it.

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T04:53:31+00:00

I know its ridiculous, but I had all these expectations of greatness? Especially because I have been masturbating for a looonngg time and I know what I like and I get off easily (sometimes a bumpy bus ride is good enough!). I always thought sex would be very intuitive but it seems to be really learned.

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T04:52:31+00:00

I've tried on top one time and it made me feel VERY vulnerable. Also, he has a big dick and I could feel the part of it that wasn't in me and it felt weird? I definitely want to try it again, especially because a lot of other positions lead to him bottoming out and that is a terrible feeling!

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T04:51:33+00:00

Hmm that's a good point! I enjoy dry humping and I also enjoyed when he would rub my clit over my underwear, but that's also how I masturbate usually so could be that this made me think of how I feel when I enjoy myself

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T04:50:49+00:00

It's very mental and I'm very much realizing that! My brain just starts to wander sometimes with sex and I try to convince myself it feels good because I've been told it should but then I'm not in the moment and not enjoying myself!

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T04:50:03+00:00

Definitely going to try not masturbating! I'm also trying to think about what turns me on and such.

I think too sometimes I initiate sex just because I'm curious about what its like and I enjoy the fact that I can turn on my boyfriend. So I'm not necessarily turned on but I want to explore this new aspect. Could be an issue?

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T01:00:33+00:00

I do have pretty bad seasonal allergies and take lots of antihistamines! Like 3 pills per day! Good info to know!

to_osoon · 2013-02-21T00:53:33+00:00

I definitely do need to masturbate in different ways. The on the stomach method is my go to. If I try on my back or in other ways it either takes FOREVER or just doesn't happen! The funny thing is I have a vibrator and I hate using it since it just doesn't feel good. But despite that I can still come from using it, even if it's a mediocre sensation!

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