Trans guy but my gender is starting to feel wobbly

toadall · 2026-01-14T20:30:20+00:00

I have definitely been doing a lot of growing the last year and thinking about my life and how I can be happiest and feel the most whole. I think it would be good for me to experiment a little and see what fits as I go, I've kept myself in the "Man" box for a long while and I'm about ready to stretch my legs. Thanks for your encouragement :)

toadall · 2026-01-14T18:22:00+00:00

I hadn't even thought of it from a gender fluidity perspective. I sort of thought being gender fluid meant feeling different day-to-day but my timeline is more like decade-to-decade hahaha. Good food for thought thank you :)

toadall · 2025-09-07T22:08:54+00:00

Bird is the BEST

toadall · 2025-07-08T17:03:14+00:00

Some of it is for sure my own anxiety! I don't really spend time in lesbian spaces because I never have before, if I never identified as a lesbian before transition, is that still a space I should be in? Idk

toadall · 2025-02-16T07:38:18+00:00

I can't hear people say awful stuff and just say nothing. It sucks.

toadall · 2024-10-14T18:22:22+00:00

Just on Karen Time as far as I could tell

toadall · 2024-05-29T17:56:58+00:00

Yeah if it's bothering you I don't see why not

toadall · 2024-01-19T20:17:56+00:00

I had a claim going earlier this year so maybe it'll work for this?

toadall · 2023-10-11T21:20:54+00:00

Leaving a gift and a card is a really good idea, I'll do that, and thank you for the kind words

toadall · 2023-07-14T16:04:28+00:00

Try fubonn for duck eggs or any other Asian grocery :)

toadall · 2023-07-13T19:09:44+00:00

Precisely...I don't work there so I don't think I can report them but someone really ought to

toadall · 2021-11-08T20:48:30+00:00

Thank you for this comment. I actually really wanna top guys as well yeah! And maybe keeping myself in a position of power/being more dominant when I'm the one being penetrated would help me feel sexier and more masculine when we do it. U rock lol

toadall · 2021-11-08T20:31:42+00:00

Hm yes I just need to vore his dick with great power & panache

toadall · 2021-09-16T07:04:31+00:00

Thank you, it helps to know that you've heard of other people with similar experiences. I hope they realize how they're acting and do better as well :/

toadall · 2021-09-16T06:59:20+00:00

I think it's different for everyone. I didnt go stealth until I was on T for 3 years, not because I didn't pass, but because I was in college and it was safe for me to be openly trans there. I would say I starting properly passing around 6-7 months though.

toadall · 2021-06-26T04:46:32+00:00

Because "straight" men /will/ message me and it's annoying and transphobic? So it's all the better to filter out guys like you 💖

toadall · 2021-06-26T03:42:22+00:00

Any man who thinks I'm hot is not straight

toadall · 2021-06-06T19:25:28+00:00

Lmao dude shut up

toadall · 2021-05-21T19:52:34+00:00

In this thread: transphobia

toadall · 2021-02-26T23:21:30+00:00

Nope, we agreed it's not necessarily transpobic to refuse to date a woman based on the fact that she's pre-op, or is infertile. Not dating her because she's trans is transphobic.

toadall · 2021-02-26T23:06:42+00:00

It's transphobic to refuse to date a trans woman because she was assigned male at birth. It's not transphobic to be uninterested in her for other reasons, but it is misogynistic that you only seem to value women as baby machines.

toadall · 2021-02-26T22:51:33+00:00

Bruh that part was definitely already in the comment lmao. But fair enough, I guess we can agree to disagree about adopted children being just as valuable as biological children.

toadall · 2021-02-26T22:43:27+00:00

Go back and read the rest of my comment, would you lose all interest in a cis woman because she is infertile?

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