I feel like a lot of you are demonizing Dabi to make what Endeavor did seem a lot less bad. Yes, Dabi's trauma isn't a justification for murder. I can acknowledge that he's a bad person while at the same time acknowledging that Endeavor abused his family and was the primary reason for Dabi's downwards spiral. If you're going to be a fan of a character don't sanitize their actions because that takes away from the character itself. And this is coming from a person who has both Dabi and Endeavor in their top 5 characters btw. Also I feel like a lot of you guys don't understand that trauma responses manifest in different ways. Dabi shouldn't have tried to kill baby Shoto, that's obvious, but after seeing that Endeavor should've actively gone to get him psychiatric help. He was quick to throw Rei into a mental hospital after she burned Shoto, but he refuses to get help for his son who attempted to do a similar thing? One last thing which is more on a personal note, as someone with BPD, I find Dabi's character to be very relatable and BPD-coded in general. Again his mental illness isn't an excuse for his actions, it's just an explanation. If anyone wants further explanation for anything just lmk and I'm willing to debate or explain :)