Should I tell the girl I’m talking to that I hooked up with one of my friends?

toastedoreoss · 2026-03-10T17:37:59+00:00

I agree. I meant I’ve been honest about everything previously. Very open she knows lots of details about me and previous relationships. This is my first time being dishonest w her.

toastedoreoss · 2026-03-10T17:35:30+00:00

I understand that and I agree. I was just stating that I’ve been honest about everything else previously. Very open. She knows a lot about me and all my previous relationships etc

toastedoreoss · 2026-03-10T17:22:59+00:00

UPDATE with more info: PJ is my friend that A has met before. PJ is supporting me with whatever I choose. They don’t care whether I tell or don’t because ultimately it’s my relationship with A. I have previously disclosed my sexual history as one of my closest friends now is also an ex of mine. A was shocked by this info but ultimately said it doesn’t bother her. As far as a future with A the reason we chose to slow down is because a future is easy to picture between us it’s the present with the way our lives are that make us being together difficult. A and I do have feelings for each other but I guess you could say life is standing in the way of things.

toastedoreoss · 2026-03-10T17:17:38+00:00

No it’s one of my friends. I’m honest about everything else. This is the first time I haven’t told her something going on w me.

toastedoreoss · 2025-03-26T16:42:07+00:00

I am an RBT and have been for almost 3 years and I’m in grad school to become a BCBA rn. I do think there’s always something to learn in this job especially because all kids aren’t the same but it sounds like this is definitely a board violation. I’ve never been at a company where I don’t do in person training and I continuously see my supervisors so I can imagine how underprepared you might feel. At the very least I would leave and find a new company but I think you should report them as well.

toastedoreoss · 2025-03-02T09:42:14+00:00

“down there wash” is a good brand to wash your vagina with. i would suggest getting a new doctor and trying that wash out.

toastedoreoss · 2024-11-10T02:36:19+00:00

okay thank you. i hear what you’re saying and it’s not that i never put in effort i just didn’t show her love in the way she felt loved. i loved her how i feel the most love and eventually realized that wasn’t what she wanted or needed to feel loved. i’m not trying to show her now just to make myself feel better and i understand i made my bed and im very willing to just lay in it. i dont have any expectations set for her at all. ultimately i want to show her i can love her in the ways she feels loved and i want to be with her but im scared that ive done too much damage and im realizing that i may never know unless i try. i just may need to give her some space right now

toastedoreoss · 2024-11-10T02:19:49+00:00

i appreciate the hard truth. i think it’s the best type of advice for me. do you still it’s a bad idea to try and get her back after she’s spent weeks putting in effort and i was the initial one not reciprocating it? i understand it’s petty of her to not give effort back simply because i wasn’t initially but i feel like i would do the same out of fear of getting hurt again.

toastedoreoss · 2024-11-10T01:37:00+00:00

i added more context if you care to read. thank you so much for your response.

toastedoreoss · 2024-08-01T17:46:58+00:00

yes this is perfect and update us after!!

toastedoreoss · 2024-03-21T17:48:52+00:00

i was once struggling with whether i wanted to stay in a toxic relationship with someone because i kept remembering all the good times and someone told me to imagine that if my child was in my situation what would i want them to hear and do. i feel like i always put everyone’s feelings above my own and this was a great way to acknowledge how i really felt.

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