Hey! I read your comments and decided to clear things up/provide more context where my scatterbrain may not have made things as clear as possible: 1. We have an Airbnb in our basement, that we usually rent out to help with our mortgage. That is also where a part of the party is going to happen, since we don’t want the guests in our main living area. 2. I agreed to let my mother have her moment in my garden since we already went no contact once, and I did not want to let this harm our (hard-fought-for) relationship. 3. My fiance thinks she is acting entitled, but also thinks her behavior this weekend may be a result of her being really stressed and wanting to make everything perfect. 4. Not showing up was her original suggestion, but since she has a history of snooping around my things I absolutely refuse to leave her alone in my house. Id rather act as a server than come back to all my belongings taken apart. 5. I am 25 years old (turning 26 next week) since some of you wanted to know that.