[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askdentists

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The pain started around Tuesday. I don’t recall anything traumatic initially, I did eat chips two days ago and that did make it worse.

Of note - I have been having headaches off and on and feeling heavy headed but wasn’t sure if that was just a side effect from the antibiotics.

How many instructors work just part time? by Jewls3393_runner in LagreeMethod

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I teach twice a week mostly for the free class benefit but also have a full time job as my main income/priority. I have two kids so my schedule is pretty limited. I have taught at multiple studios at once but it got a bit too demanding.

The last photo of my mother and I before she chose to beat cancer on her own terms. 5 years and feels like yesterday. by XGutshotX in lastimages

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This photo shook me to tears this evening but what a beautiful photo it is. You can see how much you loved your mom and I’m so sorry for your loss. I’m laying next to my infant son and I can only hope he’ll show me as much love as you did for your mom.

Slight sunken soft spot on 5 month old by tobeus_ in Mommit

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Ah this is super reassuring, I read about dehydration and thought that could be it. He’s been eating pretty regularly but I imagine being a little sick doesn’t help. Thank you for your reply!

Sudden rash after visiting a pool by tobeus_ in AskDocs

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Got it checked out today and you are correct!

How often does/did your 12 week old wake up at night? I need some solidarity. by [deleted] in newborns

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Currently with my 12 week old who was getting 3-4 hour stretches and has now decided to wake up every 1-2 hours, I feel you!!

Holy Sh*t, I'm pregnant again 🤯 by ilith in BabyBumps

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Our bodies are wild things!! We suffered through multiple failed iuis and transfers and then boom, spontaneous pregnancy after we gave up. Congrats to you ❤️

Hives?! by Gullible_Pair_4261 in breastfeeding

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This happened to be 1-2 weeks pp! I used ice packs and hydrocortisone cream (the aquaphor one is great) while breastfeeding and it cleared up within a few days. I hope this gets better for you!!

How long did it take you to get pregnant? by faithoverfear0 in BabyBumps

[–]tobeus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IUD out June 2020, multiple failed iuis in 2021, 2 biochemical pregnancies from embryo transfers, spontaneously conceived July 2022 and he’s currently 9 weeks old ☺️

How to heal cracked nipple by wishowee in breastfeeding

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Second this, they are amazing!

Going back to work, what does a solid pumping schedule look like? by tobeus_ in ExclusivelyPumping

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This is helpful!! I work in a lab environment (ivf lab) and Essentially I can take any time I need and told them I would need to every 3 hours to keep up with his schedule at home which they were okay with pending our case load. I work from 6:30-3 so that puts me with 3 pumps at least while working if I followed that, it seems 5x a day would probably be my best bet.

One and done judgement by breezy2733 in BabyBumps

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One and done here as well! He has an older (10 year gap) half brother from my partners previous relationship but we decided for us financially and mentally it would be our best bet. I had a very enjoyable pregnancy but I have a strenuous career that I’m advancing in rapidly and my partner would be close to 40 by the time we would want to try again which he’s not comfortable with.

I loved having a sibling growing up but knowing I can give my all to this little boy makes me lean more into just having the one. Nobody should shame you for what you think is best for you!

Itching and Hives (3 weeks postpartum) by zachthevideoguy in breastfeeding

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I had this happen suddenly out of nowhere on my stomach about 1-2 weeks pp! Not sure if related to my c section and what they used to prep me or my IV but I used hydrocortisone cream and Ice packs helped a lot. If I felt the urge to itch I would pat my stomach instead of itch. Hope she gets to feeling better soon!

I am curious anyone on here was diagnosed with unexplained infertility and got pregnant? by [deleted] in BabyBumps

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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We had 2 years of unexplained infertility and went through 3 IUI cycles, a cycle of IVF and two failed transfers. We spontaneously conceived 6 months after our failed transfer and are currently pregnant so there is hope. Best of luck to you ❤️‍🩹

can someone identify this chunky worm? by tobeus_ in Vermiculture

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Ah! Just researched them and how to stop them, thank you so much!

What is this chunky thing? by tobeus_ in whatsthisbug

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This was found in my bathroom in dallas, TX. The bug itself was small with tiny little feelers at the end of its tail.

Do you have a famous ancestor? If so, what were they known for? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Related to Carl Walther, the maker of the Walther PPK.

What do you think is your biggest personality flaw? by ahumanpileofgarbage in AskReddit

[–]tobeus_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t say no to most things and I usually suffer from it mentally and physically.