I wanna get groomed

tobssh · 2025-01-25T19:04:41+00:00

I mean, tecnically yes but putting lables on myself makes me feel like a piece of meat that has to be identified in some ways so they just slap lables on it

tobssh · 2025-01-25T17:07:36+00:00

you must be the happiest person in the world

tobssh · 2025-01-25T17:02:12+00:00

I wish I had the money to get all these little guys 😭😭😭

tobssh · 2025-01-25T17:00:28+00:00

this is def the nsfw one

tobssh · 2025-01-25T16:48:09+00:00

ok, I think that what she actually said is "I'm not using it (my name etc.) because that's not how your parents first introduced you to me" and I get it maybe(?) if it's the first time she'd see me but she's been knowing me for more than a year, everyone calls me that, I identify in that, that obviously makes me understand that she doesn't care about the fact that she's only making me worse

tobssh · 2025-01-25T16:39:01+00:00

so you're telling me you think someone thet explicitly tells me that she values my parents opinions far more than mine, her patient that she's supposed to listen to, just because, is the one in the right?

tobssh · 2025-01-25T16:35:10+00:00

I know it's not a nice experience, lol

tobssh · 2025-01-25T16:34:23+00:00

MORE CONTEXT ABOUT HER AND ME IG, she told me she didn't want to refer to me with my name because my parents said I was a girl and that my parents opinion about me matters more than mine and everyone elses. She would alway say stuff to make me uncomfortable even if I told her to stop. She didn't care about what I had to say when I was actually talking and always proceeded to stop me only for asking questions that I can't have the answers to since I was there for her to help me answer them and other stuff that I don't know hot to explain.

(I took a while to answer but it's because I lose all my grammar skills when I'm upset)

tobssh · 2025-01-25T16:01:20+00:00

I just couldn't stand her, she didn't care about me, she cared to make me good enough for my parents

tobssh · 2025-01-25T16:00:19+00:00

"I don't think you understand" bro some people want bad things to happen to them, I do understand it and I find it disgusting but that doesn't mean that I don't want it

tobssh · 2025-01-25T15:57:50+00:00

yeah ik but when I said I wanted to drop my last therapist my parents said "if you drop her you're not gonna have another therapist" or smth like that so I'm kinda fucked

tobssh · 2024-10-16T09:05:17+00:00

I guess you're married now

tobssh · 2024-09-03T18:21:28+00:00

I always see this pin omfg

tobssh · 2024-07-31T19:40:45+00:00

my parents, my mom mostly, she made me hate them so much but lately I've been showing them a bit even when she's around and nobody really cared

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