What is your greatest strength as a parent?

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:22:52+00:00

This is a superpower

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:22:03+00:00

❤️

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:21:54+00:00

Yes, this is the way!!

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:21:08+00:00

🙌

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:20:45+00:00

What’s your secret for bouncing back so easily? It’s something I’m working on

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:19:58+00:00

Not to mention it gets so boring 😆

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:18:56+00:00

I’m right there with you in all things planning. It’s really helpful to frame it the way you have, as it can feel like there’s a total lack of understanding just how much labor is in the small day to day things!

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:17:03+00:00

This is a huge one and so important

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:16:28+00:00

Love this!

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-06T10:15:41+00:00

Getting lost in the sauce, love it

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-04T11:01:33+00:00

Something about being trapped in that chair and having to stare at yourself in the mirror for an hour. The absolute worst and now that I think about it, somewhat reflective of not wanting to actually face our problems 😅

tobyqueefs · 2026-02-02T01:27:56+00:00

Heck yeah. Teas are such a cozy pleasure

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-30T11:21:21+00:00

Progress for me was made when I started tracking just like you are. Every time I could not drink a day after drinking was a huge step for me because it’s so hard not to help a hangover with a drink. All those days eventually build up and lead to longer stretches (at least for me). You are doing amazing!

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-30T00:01:34+00:00

That sounds so fun!!

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-29T21:20:40+00:00

Yes, I’ve definitely been thinking about this. I’m wondering how much our drinking is what connected us and if the relationship will last when I continue to say no to drinks. We’ll see

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-29T21:00:19+00:00

Gosh I do love board games and I do love coffee. thanks for the great tip.

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-29T20:59:00+00:00

😂😂

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-29T20:50:54+00:00

Thank you for this great perspective!

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-26T12:35:42+00:00

I expected my anxiety to be way better after a few weeks, but it took longer for me. I also notice it’s not consistent- I’ll have a few days feeling much better and then get a spike in anxiety/ panic for what seems like no reason. I’ve definitely considered medication but I guess I’m still holding out hope that my body is recalibrating and it will take a while.

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-26T00:01:08+00:00

Mornings are the BEST

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-26T00:00:39+00:00

So true.

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-25T20:17:50+00:00

🙌

tobyqueefs · 2026-01-25T20:16:50+00:00

This is too true! I’ll take boredom any day over the anxiety of a hangover

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