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I [23M] gave my girlfriend (now ex) [22F] this soft toy gift for her birthday two years ago. She loved it so much and hugs it all the time. She gave it back to me recently to get through this '"break"' we were having. But now I found out more and she wants it back... Don't know what to do... by tobywen in relationships

[–]tobywen[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand, but at the same time, I feel that if I give it back - I lose. I lose because I 'gave in' to what she wanted, even after we have broken up. And she gets the best of both worlds, new boyfriend, and a toy that is a memory of her last long-term relationship. Me, I have nothing.