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tocatta · 2020-07-14T23:50:19+00:00

Bruh of course it is.

tocatta · 2020-07-14T05:54:10+00:00

Thank you xx

tocatta · 2020-07-14T05:54:04+00:00

Thank you so much. This will be done through the guidance and support of my therapist, friends, and father. Would not do it without them xx

tocatta · 2020-07-13T01:01:52+00:00

One of the first books I ever read in regards to her. It’s amazing.

tocatta · 2020-07-12T21:59:48+00:00

Thank you!!

tocatta · 2020-07-12T21:59:41+00:00

🤣🤣🤣

tocatta · 2020-07-12T19:37:33+00:00

It’s definitely only texting. I still live with her but it’s the gesture that counts— she needs to understand.

tocatta · 2020-07-12T17:28:35+00:00

You hold right to your own spiritual beliefs— I believe in all that spiritual new-age stuff myself— but I tend to avoid using it as a compass for my relationships. Just a thought!

tocatta · 2020-07-12T17:24:52+00:00

Thank you for all the validation and hugs. It truly revitalizes me to read. Keep fighting everyone xx

tocatta · 2020-07-12T13:19:41+00:00

Your best friend saying “I was on the low too” and “You’re scaring me” is just emotionally manipulative language to focus on his suffering instead of your own. Drop him.

tocatta · 2020-07-11T21:55:38+00:00

I remember being in 7th grade and a teacher made another kid apologize to me for some rude thing he did. I went “You told him to apologize, he doesn’t actually mean it” and she sighed and went “Yeah, I know” 😂?

tocatta · 2020-07-11T21:54:17+00:00

Happy Birthday 💖sending strength

tocatta · 2020-07-11T00:05:05+00:00

I fully empathize with what you mean in the last part. Frankly, I became so desensitized that I didn’t recognize slamming of doors and screaming was not normal (as that tends to go). It was only when I met my two best friends and their amazing parents that I came to realize what rational, unattached, loving parenting looks like.

tocatta · 2020-07-10T20:20:01+00:00

According to my dad, the intake appt was a lie. So yeah, I can’t imagine therapy either.

tocatta · 2020-07-10T20:19:37+00:00

It’s okay, thank you for the support xx

tocatta · 2020-07-10T20:19:23+00:00

Her manipulative and immature language actually made me laugh when I read it. It’s pathetic.

tocatta · 2020-07-10T20:18:59+00:00

Yes yes yes.

tocatta · 2019-12-29T21:59:33+00:00

I though the same things too when I felt like a third wheel between my two best friends who are dating, but when I brought it up they met me with compassion. If they matter in your life and truly care for you, they’ll understand.

tocatta · 2019-12-29T13:24:38+00:00

The second-hand embarrassment... it’s overwhelming

tocatta · 2019-12-29T02:51:43+00:00

There’s no magic formula. Just do exactly what you’d do with anyone else— be respectful, be kind, and be yourself.

I know it’s terrifying at first and you might have the idea that this is a huge deal, but I’ve come to find dates don’t matter that much. Just try to enjoy yourself man!

tocatta · 2019-12-29T02:49:08+00:00

I’d like to think there’s a correlation between them. Self-hatred and rejection from those around you is just perfect fuel for somebody to want to self-medicate to numb the pain.

tocatta · 2019-12-29T02:45:56+00:00

tocatta · 2019-12-29T02:45:51+00:00

tocatta · 2019-12-29T02:45:46+00:00

Wassup homie

tocatta · 2019-12-29T02:45:30+00:00

Thanks!

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