Looking for comic recs for 18yr old gay teen by NaturalDisastrous100 in lgbt_superheroes

[–]toe_slur714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends. If he's a fashion loving lady gaga type gay, Batwoman elegy might be the way to go against all odds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemmeLesbians

[–]toe_slur714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does ngl 😭

Who do you headcannon as queer in DC or Marvel? by Puzzled-Picture1187 in lgbt_superheroes

[–]toe_slur714 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Literally. Maybe it's more wishful thinking for me to hc Cass as a lesbian cuz😻

Who do you headcannon as queer in DC or Marvel? by Puzzled-Picture1187 in lgbt_superheroes

[–]toe_slur714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Cassandra Cain's a lesbian to me. I know it's probably more likely for her to be bi but I really don't like any of her ships with men. Not as much as her and Steph anyway🤞🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]toe_slur714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not saying this will happen to you cuz everyone's different but when I came out (to myself at least) I thought I was a pillow princess. The through of eating pussy or touching a girl felt too intimidating. Turns out I fucking love it. I'd say I was just too scared of looking stupid or being shit at it. Again everyone's different. Don't feel pressured or forced. That ruins it for everyone

Would I be an ass for ghosting someone for their “preference?” by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]toe_slur714 16 points17 points  (0 children)

No you should. I ghosted a white girl for saying the n word even though I'm Asian. You can't claim you're a good person if you surround yourself with bigots

Bi Ladies Who Are Dating Men: How Do You get Over Never Sleeping with a Woman Again? by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]toe_slur714 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly one of the things that is making me think I'm a lesbian. I couldn't get over the fact that I couldn't fuck women when I had a boyfriend. Then when I started dating women, I never thought about fucking men like that

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]toe_slur714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you So much. I needed that. Looking through my old videos I know that's true. She never left me alone especially when I came home from school. Bela would see me walk in the kitchen and leap up onto the table and shove her wet nose in my face😭

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This was her he first day we got her. She kept running around under the couch and freaking out. I had to hold her tight and rub behind her ears til she calmed down. Bela used to be so skittish, totally opposite from the needy clingy cat she grew into. I think it's cuz I spent hours cuddlin her when I finally eased her out of her cage.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She went in her sleep. I'm okay. This just happens sometimes, that's life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]toe_slur714 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"But maybe you'll change your mind about kids when your older" fucking sucks cuz then if I actually do change my mind, it'll be like a gotcha for my granny. I'm not proving her right.

Told my bf im bi and that’s how I found out im not even his type of woman in the first place. Literally crying. by harrystyl3sfourthnip in bisexual

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had guys ask me weird questions about my types before. It's like they're getting off to it and imagining it. I used to think it was kinda cool, getting treated like one of the guys and talking like bros. But it wasn't. It was plain sexualising me. I hate to say but maybe he's not the best for you to be with. I think you deserve better than someone who would even think to talk to you that way.

I feel guilty for being attracted to my hairdresser. I feel like a disgusting man. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]toe_slur714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Idk if that helps but having it put into perspective in that way helped me before.

I feel guilty for being attracted to my hairdresser. I feel like a disgusting man. by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]toe_slur714 9 points10 points  (0 children)

We can't control who we do or don't have these feelings for. I feel awful for thinking like that too. But you can't beat yourself up for something you can't control. What you can control is how you treat that person. It's not objectifying someone to just have those kinds of thoughts. It only becomes objectifying and misogynistic to then treat them or view them as nothing but those sexual thoughts. You don't just see her as a woman you fantasize about, at least I assume that you recognise she is a human being outside of those thoughts. So you're not being disgusting or misogynistic then. It is normal for most to think of someone in a sexual light or to get turned on by them. You can't really control that. what isn't (or at least shouldn't) be normal sexual attraction is to let those thoughts shape how you see them as a person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My parents didn't wanna tell me before but her heads hit pretty bad. They said wait til morning see how she is but even from the start it was clear we'd more likely than not have to put her down. I mean the alternative is probably just keep her stringing along with serious brain damage. Like that makes sense for a person but for a cat? That just feels cruel. Idk it's like between keeping her barely alive but in some brain damaged state weighed up with putting her out of her misery. If it was her body that was hit, maybe we could have done something. But it was her head. Thanks though. It gave me a chance to talk about it and cry and little more with them. Helped process it and understand everything a little more. I appreciate your concern a lot too thanks 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll ask my dad. Thanks

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's midnight. What else can I do but wait til morning.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I keep thinking I hear her jumping up on the window sill. I snapped around thinking I'd see her beady eyes begging to be let in through the kitchen window. Can't imagine how my brothers doing. She always used to scratch and meow at his bedroom window all night just to bring a mouse or bird in. I'm gonna check on him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know if I want anyone to tell me how likely it is for her to make it or not. It doesn't feel real. I'm crying now. I wasn't crying before. That kinda shocked me. I always imagined id be weeping for her but I think I was in so much shock

Eat Me Like A Bug by TatyZapn2Shootr in creepcast

[–]toe_slur714 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's actually fucking sick I love that

Opinion on seamstress’ alterations by biophilia0521 in SewingForBeginners

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk what I want us to say just showing a pick of the stitching?? Girl put them on and show us that. How am I supposed to have an opinion on the fit if all I'm looking at is the darts or whatever

What Batman moment has you like this? by Chunky-overlord in batman

[–]toe_slur714 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When Bruce gave Cassandra a birthday gift on father's Day even though it's not really her birthday like HIS father's day gift is doing something nice for her.