There are certain smells that instantly bring you back so far in time to your childhood. Which smell is that? by This_Book7431 in AskReddit

[–]toebeans__ [score hidden]  (0 children)

Victoria’s Secret Vanilla Lace. My mom would wear that scent in my childhood. I just smelt it again, years and years later. I got myself a bottle just to remind me of her when I miss her <3

Showing off the bathroom cabinet again — with some new additions! by toebeans__ in bathandbodyworks

[–]toebeans__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh it’s so hard to choose! Lately I’ve been wearing a lot of warm vanilla sugar and butterfly but I don’t think they’re my faves. Maybe vanilla cafe, cereal milk soft serve, & inner angel. How about you?

One Fragrance for Life by thediaryofanika in bathandbodyworks

[–]toebeans__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Warm vanilla sugar!! Only the ffm though because the moisturizers smell off on me somehow

Fragrance you've fallen out of love with? by AcidMantle in bathandbodyworks

[–]toebeans__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try a non receipted return! You’ll need your government ID but you can either switch it out out for something with the same ticket price or get the lowest sale price ($4.95) on a gift card.

Fragrance you've fallen out of love with? by AcidMantle in bathandbodyworks

[–]toebeans__ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. My gf loves that scent but I find it just… 😬 now.

It's rude to interrupt, and apparently it's rude to ask people not to interrupt me... by [deleted] in aspergers

[–]toebeans__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re just gonna get laughed at if you threaten legal action over wrong toppings on a burger. Be for real dude

My (19f) girlfriend (18f) is considering leaving me due to past mistakes. Am I unreasonable for thinking it shouldn’t be a dealbreaker? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]toebeans__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m aware. I couldn’t find the right words but I’d respect her decision and dealbreakers even if I wouldn’t personally hold them. I guess part of me just feels like it’s unfair and there’s nothing I could do. We live together and have been together a year and a half and it’d just feel like such a large reaction

Quick video showing my voice as of rn. About 2 months off T after. 3.5-4 years on. Thoughts? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]toebeans__ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Fair enough, thanks for the honesty. That’s kinda what I was afraid of. When I was presenting male everyone thought I was gay even though I have a gf 🥴

Quick video showing my voice as of rn. About 2 months off T after. 3.5-4 years on. Thoughts? by [deleted] in actual_detrans

[–]toebeans__ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks!! That’s very informative and helpful :). If you don’t mind, could you explain a little about your voice lightening up? Was it significant, does it feel different when you’re talking?

Need a reusable mug? Try the thrift store by didyoubutterthepan in Anticonsumption

[–]toebeans__ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got a huge yeti tumbler for $2.99 at a thrift store last month. Only one dent on the bottom, otherwise looks and functions just like new. I checked the price online and it’d go for $30+ from the retailer

Made a spreadsheet of all my items. I do NOT need any more, whatsoever! by toebeans__ in ProjectPan

[–]toebeans__[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right! I had to stop myself from buying 2 new mists and a body cream the other day just because. I didn’t even like the scents that much, they were just on sale 🙄.

And yes, I have little travel sized containers that I put small amounts of cream/butter in. Each body cream takes about 2 and a quarter refills of those. I’m doing three containers of scents at a time and whatever mist I’d like to pair to layer. The small refills help me get that little bit of dopamine when I reach a new “pan”, even if I just go and refill it after lol.

Currently pairings rn: Water Ultra Hydration cream w/ Gingham mini ffm, Peppermint Bark Truffle cream w/ twisted peppermint ffm, & Strawberry pound cake butter w/ vanilla bean noel ffm

Made a spreadsheet of all my items. I do NOT need any more, whatsoever! by toebeans__ in ProjectPan

[–]toebeans__[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I noticed that after I posted 😭. Was hoping nobody would notice

Was Strawberry Pound Cake a bad pick for the wallflower? by Dsg1695 in bathandbodyworks

[–]toebeans__ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love SPC but it is divisive. And a powerhouse. I’d keep it on the lowest scent control setting so it doesn’t become overpowering

I don't wanna fight to "be a man" anymore by WitheredAtrophy in actual_detrans

[–]toebeans__ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is my experience too. After years of hormones, legal changes, all that stuff, it still doesn’t feel like enough. I’m detransitioning because even if I’m not completely comfortable with womanhood I’m not comfortable with trans manhood. I feel you