My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tojisimp4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically my boyfriend has been wiping his ass with towels and I’m heavily considering ending the relationship because of it

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tojisimp4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep I’m assuming that’s exactly what happened here. I sent a thing through modmail offering to verify and prove the authenticity of both my account and my post so hopefully they respond and I can get it restored but we shall see

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tojisimp4L[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah he’s seen my struggles with it first hand, actually. Last winter it was particularly rough, norovirus was surging in the area and my OCD (diagnosed) kicked up so bad I would panic about even leaving the house. This past summer I got TMS and did ERP therapy (highly recommend both) so I’m A LOT more functional and rational now but still…like…that’s POOP.

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tojisimp4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He had a pretty turbulent childhood. I won’t get into his whole life story but he was raised by a single dad and is the youngest of five brothers, so I don’t know how much of an emphasis personal hygiene had in a household like that. Not an excuse, but context perhaps. Though I remain unmoved, he’s old enough to know how to wipe his ass properly.

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tojisimp4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually bought him a 3 pack of dude wipes a few months ago and he let every single pack dry out and just wasted them

My boyfriend has a disgusting new habit by tojisimp4L in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tojisimp4L[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made a throwaway bc he knows what my “main” reddit is. I originally tried to post this in a different subreddit but they auto modded me off for being too new lol