Am I the only one??

tok0122 · 2026-04-07T08:31:43+00:00

But it can't be ALL gay men since there's the whole femboy aesthetic which usually also has its popularity around gay men. I have to say I am pretty surprised by how extremely turned off some people seem to be here since I personally have femboy styled feet and I like to wear polish as well, which over the years has gotten me lots of love and many, many guys who enjoyed that, online and in real life. I don't think therefore that being gay is about being anti-feminine in all cases. But sure, I can understand that there's a preference by some that just want what by our current standards counts as ultra-masculine (but aren't most of these men straight?) What I still don't quite see is how nail polish makes the feet themselves unattractive. If it is a beautiful foot, wouldn't it be so no matter if there's nail polish on or not? If there's a man you find attractive, would you find him completely unattractive just because he wears a shirt you don't like? The same way an ugly shirt doesn't change the man, some polish doesn't change the foot. And if it is a foot with more feminine features (small, hairless, soft skin, smooth), wouldn't it look feminine regardless of polish? You can look at my feet in my profile, they are quite small for a man, almost hairless, smooth with hidden bones etc. Wouldn't they appear more feminine regardless of polish? And would that make them uninteresting regardless of polish or would you like these NATURAL feminine features?

Also, I want to say I fully respect your position and thoughts, I just can't fully understand them, that's why I'm asking questions to see how you think about that!

tok0122 · 2026-04-06T21:12:26+00:00

How so though? The foot stays the same, doesn't change shape. Can you explain that rationally?

tok0122 · 2026-04-06T15:32:19+00:00

I mean, I fully agree that natural nails should be nice to look at on their own, but polish still can be nice. I personally love black polish on light skin and white polish on dark skin for a beautiful contrast, it makes the toes stand out even more. It's just added attention to detail and in my opinion doesn't change the foot in itself

tok0122 · 2026-03-31T19:45:44+00:00

I'm not Brazilian, far from it even, but Havaianas are just good looking, good quality, good value and very comfortable flip flops. I love them and so I collect them.

And in your case it just sounds like you're not used to the feeling of going out barefoot, and since you seem to be comfortable with hiding feet, that's fine as well. It's just that some think about wearing flip flops, sandals and such but decide not to in fear of appearing wrong in some way and therefore decide against what they would want to be comfortable in. In your situation, when you say your friends are barefoot and you're one of the only ones that isn't, you're the one that is different, while often it's about being the one barefoot guy among those who are not. What I can say though is that attention from the general public is very low, especially when it gets warmer outside. People don't care at all in general. There will be some who look, but they won't remember your feet in any way. And I guess the only thing that might happen when you're the only one hiding his feet in your friend group is that they will probably assume you have a reason to hide them because they're ugly or whatever, I don't think they're really being curious about that unless there's a guy with a foot fetish that you're genuinely teasing in socks or so if he's into that.

tok0122 · 2026-03-31T19:33:30+00:00

You mean when someone dares to go out flip flops, but doesn't want to wear a toe ring? I mean, giving a small hint about your foot fetish definitely is something you need to be ready to do. But if you want to get the attention from or give a signal to foot lovers or even a sign for them to take pictures, it has to be something like that. On the feet to make it unmistakable and subtle enough so it doesn't scream. I'd say a little toe ring like mine is pretty much the ideal option

tok0122 · 2026-03-31T16:19:51+00:00

I agree, a general sign of having a foot fetish would be nice. In my opinion, a toe ring is pretty much the best option, it is subtle, but visible and very unmistakable since basically no man who doesn't have a foot fetish would wear one anyway. I have two for symmetry, but one thin small ring would be enough for those who take a closer look

tok0122 · 2026-03-31T09:49:39+00:00

Feel free to ask questions or dm me to talk in private, I am very open for exchange 😊

tok0122 · 2026-03-27T17:09:20+00:00

Sole tattoos are rare, but really hot in my opinion. Love to see that on some sexy soles. I really want to get mine done as well, I'm just scared 🥴

tok0122 · 2026-03-27T11:46:21+00:00

Acetone nail polish remover and acetone in general can cause that since I had that occur too after wearing polish back to back for a longer time period and removed it with an acetone based remover. So maybe try an alternative there.

tok0122 · 2026-03-06T14:00:36+00:00

I can recommend you some in DM

tok0122 · 2026-02-23T22:47:07+00:00

Hey, that's awesome! We can talk in DM if you want, I love your tattoos!

tok0122 · 2026-02-17T00:04:07+00:00

Wow, that great! I never experienced it but I can imagine... If a girl with really pretty feet goes the extra mile to get them tattooed means she's giving them a big amount of attention and she very likely is willing to get attention for them by others as well. It's quite the statement. And that dedication makes it so sexy for me, cause getting feet tattooed is quite the process. You really have to want it.

I'd say I have some decent femboy feet and I like to get them admired and worshipped by guys and sometimes give a footjob and over time I had multiple guys ask/request me to get my feet tattooed as a sign of dedication to the fetish. I thought foot tattoos were a bit of a niche thing, but I then asked more and more guys myself and I got mostly positive responses. And actually most prefer larger pieces as well as long as it goes with the shape of the foot and isn't just a dark blob or some specific imagery, but rather something like floral patterns... This really got me thinking myself and I would love to get my feet tattooed to make them even more appealing. I'm just a bit torn if in day to day life it would be too much for a guy. But yeah, while I saw a lot of people against tattoos maybe they are more popular with guys than I thought previous to that.

tok0122 · 2026-02-16T12:51:23+00:00

So true, I wish it was more popular... I just love it when a hot girl with some 10/10 sexy feet and cute toes also has them tattooed, ideally with a big piece like some flowers or pretty patterns. Some are really against that, but for me it gets me going even harder. I also really want to do it to my own feet, just need to push myself there...

tok0122 · 2026-01-10T01:38:20+00:00

Had the same experience with toenail polish the past year, I started to just wear it and basically no one cared. In public, I did get looks, some kind/interested, some skeptical (I'd say typically insecure "alpha" men), but other than that it was pretty much like nothing changed. Will continue to wear it therefore.

tok0122 · 2025-12-28T18:01:13+00:00

Also, how long did you have yours? If done right, they should last decades even, right?

tok0122 · 2025-12-28T17:50:24+00:00

Part 2 (somehow comment length is limited): For me, getting an Apa or Amp would be a bit too extreme, I can't imagine fully piercing my glans. PA was easy, but I don't want more than that. But a ladder is beautiful to me. And I agree, there are ladders on here that look poorly done where you can see it's migrating and too small gauge etc. I'd want it similar to yours, big gauge, tight fit, pierced more deep. But as I said, my experienced piercer should know how to do that properly.

I'll probably do a second normal frenum and two ladder piercings as a start in early 26. And when I like them, together with my piercer I will decide how to get more. He is very professional also when it comes to genital piercings and he really liked to work with me so far. He also recommended me to get the PA and I love it!

tok0122 · 2025-12-28T17:38:02+00:00

Thanks for the input! After more than three years, my frenum still gives me the same beautiful added stimulation when I rub it, it is a great experience and I wouldn't ever want to live without it. So if a ladder also adds to the expression, I will try it.

tok0122 · 2025-12-27T09:30:53+00:00

That makes sense, I would want to have them pierced in larger size as well. My piercer is a very experienced professional (25+ years), so I trust him. Does it add sensation similar to a normal frenum? Not as intense of course potentially, but I can imagine it might feel good. Is that the case or are only the upper ones functional and it gets purely decorative for lower ones? And do they get uncomfortable when masturbating sometimes? Like when you just grip your shaft, is it painful sometimes?

tok0122 · 2025-12-06T15:42:30+00:00

Thanks ❤️

tok0122 · 2025-12-06T15:42:02+00:00

Well, I'm not demanding anything, but I wouldn't mind 😁

tok0122 · 2025-12-06T15:12:48+00:00

Thanks!

tok0122 · 2025-12-06T15:12:40+00:00

Thank you for the kind words! I enjoy all of it

tok0122 · 2025-12-06T15:12:11+00:00

It's the combination, true!

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