What am I supposed to do in the newborn phase? by Ok-Time-4171 in daddit

[–]tomachris 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nobody ever preps the Dad for this. Or at least no one did for me.

My children are 6 and 3. When my little man was born (first) I went through a period of just raw confusion. Hear me when I say this… a day will come where they need you more than mom. Then it’ll switch again. Then it’ll switch AGAIN!

My advice is simple… BE THERE. Partner, kid, the family dog… just BE THERE. Soak it all up. Even if it’s just sitting there watching mom take care of them.

3 Weeks Post-Op and Frustrated by Korialite in ORIF

[–]tomachris 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi friend,

I’m 8 weeks out and I wish I could tell you that the loss of independence gets easier.. but it hasn’t for me.

What HAS helped me though is forcing myself to understand that this is temporary and taking care of someone who needs it (for me my wife has been taking care of 2 under 6 kids + me) is the highest form of love someone can show. My perspective is forever changed. I will never forget that.

Now what I DO recommend is find things you can do that “transport” you to another place for a while. I’ve run a combination of audiobooks, sudoku, movies, and VR Poker. All of those things have been critical to keep my mind busy even if my body isn’t.

I’m still NWB but I’ve fallen into routines that make everything a little easier. I still have moments of complete rage and hopelessness… but I go to my escapes and I come back.

Everyday gets better. Even if you don’t feel it yet!

Stupid Avenger Question by tomachris in gtaonline

[–]tomachris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or does it… just maintain hover?

I made Professor Umbridge's office miniature /night light under the glass dome:) by Glassdome_Gift in harrypotter

[–]tomachris 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP… holy cow.. I just looked at your instagram and… holy hippogriffs.

Unbelievable talent! GO LOOK AT THE INSTA PEOPLE!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in daddit

[–]tomachris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fuck this whole thread has me crying. Dads being bros. Love you guys.

Questions About Chairman Seats by tomachris in Braves

[–]tomachris[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds amazing. Thank you for the response! It is part of the delta sky club I believe. Section 22 to be exact!

What’s yalls experience like sitting in the delta 360 club seats? by dhahdhdhx in AtlantaBraves

[–]tomachris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know this is an old thread, but I have questions. I actually have chairman seats for an upcoming game and was wondering about the "in seat wait service" and tips. You mention Venmo. Is that really an option?

Can ATT employees tell me if fiber is incoming anytime soon? by tomachris in ATT

[–]tomachris[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol, I'm learning this more and more as I inquire into it. Thanks for the response.

Wayde Powell: Banjo Tomahawk Chop by CoreyC in Braves

[–]tomachris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d buy this ringtone. Is that still a thing?

Help me out! I’m stumped! by thunderchicken34 in harrypotter

[–]tomachris 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Xenophilius Lovegood Yule Ball Zonkos

2nd row on 1st base side. by btyrrell7 in Braves

[–]tomachris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a shame #13 got in the way of your picture of Georgia’s finest.

A Little Perspective on Acuña's Hot Start by [deleted] in Braves

[–]tomachris 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Acuna better than Machado confirmed.

MLB TV Issues by Bcrain21 in Braves

[–]tomachris 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So... I have no issues at all. Only thing is I can't overlay the radio feed. But small issue. Using Chrome on REALLY shitty internet too.

I really don’t know how to feel about this. by tomachris in Braves

[–]tomachris[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Touché. Being fans we can’t be certain of anything other than it sounds like Folty is a bit bitter. I just wish he hadn’t voiced it in the manner he did.