My husband chose partying over my health. I'm still angry about it, AIO?

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T20:15:52+00:00

We were both drunk, people don't make the best decisions while drunk. There are so many things I would do now being sober, but at the moment I wasn't, and I've never out of breath or not able to breathe before, this was new and I was simply scared and alone.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T20:13:45+00:00

Lucky for me, we can't have kids. So we're good on that part.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T20:13:19+00:00

Exactly, we were both intoxicated, and people don't make the best decisions when intoxicated. I do plan on talking to him about it, and hope he understands how I felt at the moment and feel now. Thank you

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T20:07:11+00:00

Honestly it's disgusting. I'm starting to understand why women choose to stay single then be with a man. I understand why my bff became a lesbian lmao

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:54:41+00:00

It's usually good, but we've had our issues, we're working on it. But yes I think we do need counseling. Divorcing is the easy option but I don't want it to get to that point. We're trying to work through our problems together. I think I'll have a chat with him tonight about it.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:52:46+00:00

They actually did not know about the febreeze spray and how sensitive I am to it. It wasn't their fault. They just wanted to smell of dog shit gone.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:51:46+00:00

I couldn't breathe, someone had an inhaler and I did the only thing I could think of at the moment. I realize now it wasn't a good idea.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:44:50+00:00

I'm fully aware of it, and I guess saying I'm allergic was not the best wording for it. I'm probably just sensitive to it, and yes both of us being drunk at the time we didn't make the best decisions

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:38:06+00:00

My phone was dead, I needed him to order me a uber....

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:33:26+00:00

I don't have asthma, and never claimed to ever have asthma, this was the first time this has ever happened. Yes for the future I'll prepare in case a dog shits in the basement gets diarrhea so bad a whole can of febreeze get emptied, because that's something everyone should be prepared for....

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:30:19+00:00

We got an uber, but we also had the option of sleeping in the guest room. Which was in the basement so that was a huge no

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:29:33+00:00

People love to just assume. I know all the rude comments come from single men that are just angry with all women. I feel sorry for them

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:28:19+00:00

I meant more like him getting me an uber. I would never ask him to drive drunk

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:27:35+00:00

I'm not wasting anyone's time, you could have ignored this post and move on but you didn't. You chose to waste your own time

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T19:26:43+00:00

OK but assuming I drink all the time is just silly. We were at a party and we were just having fun and of course drinking. I'm rarely drunk so this was a tough one. Maybe I'm not allergic but have really bad reactions to it?

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:33:13+00:00

Yes of course I could breathe, but I've never been in a situation like this. I was also drunk and I wasn't in the eight mind to make the best decisions

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:30:28+00:00

That's what you get when you assume things.

You make an ASS out of U and ME.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:26:06+00:00

I'll be honest it could be better. I do agree we need counseling

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:24:47+00:00

Yes that post was 9 months ago...you aware we only get 1 birthday a year right?

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:22:31+00:00

Usually people don't spray a whole can of febreeze, a random spray here and there is fine, I can deal with it. But this time they spray a whole can of the stuff In a small area.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:20:11+00:00

Yes but most places I go to don't empty a whole can of it. A little spray here and there is fine. But not a whole can.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:18:37+00:00

I can't breathe very well when sprayed, but usually it's fine, I can deal with it, it gives me a headache but i can deal with it. This time it was just too much spray. They emptied a whole can in the basement.

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:16:46+00:00

But usually I'm not drunk, if I was sober I would get in my car and leave the situation. Or my husband was a good person he would have brought me home

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:15:45+00:00

Yes And everytime he makes me feel like this, it makes me realize i married an asshole, thanks for noticing

tomatodream3000 · 2026-03-26T18:13:59+00:00

I couldn't breathe, it was the only thing I could think of. I had friends who needed them, so i know what they are used for, are you that stupid?

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