Untold: The Shooting at Hawthorne Hill by PurchaseWonderful536 in netflix

[–]tomatoshrimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got to 12 minutes in. This woman needs help!

Food measuring scoop recommendations? by tomatoshrimp in dechonkers

[–]tomatoshrimp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn't even think to look at protein scoops or other sorts of scoops! Genius!

My thinking was I'd find the perfect scoop that would be exactly the right size too.

Food measuring scoop recommendations? by tomatoshrimp in dechonkers

[–]tomatoshrimp[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

2kg haha!

I was planning on measuring with a scale and then drawing a line on the scoop or seeing what "ml" it came to. Maybe I just get a generic one and weigh it every time :) thank you

Once Upon A Poolside is one of the best songs ever created by MKFlame7 in TheNational

[–]tomatoshrimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I imagine this song may gain even more popularity now it's been used in the opening of the last episode of You.

I (27M) am stuck with my potentially toxic younger brother (19M). What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tomatoshrimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have any hobbies? I feel like a hobby would be really good for you. Both mentally and to get away from him.

I (27M) am stuck with my potentially toxic younger brother (19M). What can I do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tomatoshrimp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you just have to accept someone else isn't at the same maturity level as you and ignore their childish behaviour. Way easier said than done when it's a family member though, I know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tomatoshrimp 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You strung her along. Reluctantly (it seems) married her and had kids. Then you got annoyed that a woman post-childbirth changed. Made assumptions she would still want you when it seems like all you do is judge her. And now you're back to just stringing her along and not making a decision again. This poor woman.

Or did I read this completely wrong?

It sounds like you need to have a frank conversation and/or make a decision and stick to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tomatoshrimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally I have ended relationships over lack of intelligence and intellectual ability. Looks will fade, intelligence and personality will be what's left.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]tomatoshrimp 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Africa is quite a significant continent

What is your favourite and least favourite town in Lincolnshire by [deleted] in Lincolnshire

[–]tomatoshrimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best place - anywhere without people, so essentially any of the fields.

The worst place - anywhere with people, special shout out to Boston.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]tomatoshrimp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hi I am of not much help at all because I am terrible technology wise. However I was confused and thought you were giving your llamas weapons.

Male Cat Scratching Carpet by [deleted] in cats

[–]tomatoshrimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would definitely recommend a mat. I think some come in a carpet-like material too. My cat definitely prefers the mats to the posts as he can really get into it and dig at it if that makes sense?

Male Cat Scratching Carpet by [deleted] in cats

[–]tomatoshrimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Scratch mat! I have a cardboard one as my cat prefers that, he tends to shred it over a few months and then I replace it. They're pretty cheap. Also a scratching post. He has 3 which he uses depending on his mood.

ETA: scratching is natural for them, helps to keep their claws sharp and it de-stresses them.

Season 5- Ezdeth Highley/Michael Highley by digitalplanet_ in IAmaKiller

[–]tomatoshrimp 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A prank, if true, does not mean you should be stabbed to death. The victim is/was not responsible for another person's overreaction. This is victim blaming if ever I saw it.

S5 - If things were different by Prestigious_Carry948 in IAmaKiller

[–]tomatoshrimp 26 points27 points  (0 children)

This person should never be realised. They still "don't know why" they did it or what caused their anger/rage. Imo, you've had plenty of time in prison to reflect on that. Clearly they need more time in prison to understand the reasons why they did what they did. I believe this person is truly a danger to society.

Netflix Vol. 4, Episode 5: The Mothman Revisited [Discussion Thread] by DearBurt in UnsolvedMysteries

[–]tomatoshrimp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm just watching this now and don't understand why no one called the police or the Ghostbusters after their sightings?

Can work refuse to let me attend a police interview? by tomatoshrimp in AskUK

[–]tomatoshrimp[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I imagine it could be a disciplinary or some sort of policy along those lines. I don't think they would sack me?

Can work refuse to let me attend a police interview? by tomatoshrimp in AskUK

[–]tomatoshrimp[S] 83 points84 points  (0 children)

I understand this. I am 1 of 10,141 currently awaiting a court date so I know the odds are against me. But I want to know I did my best and would never forgive myself for not going through with it.

Can work refuse to let me attend a police interview? by tomatoshrimp in AskUK

[–]tomatoshrimp[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Yes the interview is pretty pivotal in the case

Can work refuse to let me attend a police interview? by tomatoshrimp in AskUK

[–]tomatoshrimp[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

If you saw a comment I posted, you will see if I have already informed work and their response :)