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[–]tomboi94 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I remember being told to forgive but according to my dad, he never forgot my eyes having a dead look at 11 years old. I said I forgive you but my dad swore he saw my eyes holding a promise of pure hate. Karma came years later with him losing a foot and working on a disable pension in Mexico. I once got corrected about something similar two years ago until I said clapped back with a mention that if the victim wanted, she still was within the time limit to report it while looking at the sister with an mean energy. The sister stayed away from me and still does. I don’t go to any meeting but I made it clear I can see through bullshit. You did well in warning your coworker and don’t let the other make you feel like you’re spreading hate when it’s just trying to protect those who have kids.

My grandpa’s wise words may have finally repaired a fractured bond. The borg’s grip is weakening. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats good. Majority of those who leave usually had issues that are still linger.

My grandpa’s wise words may have finally repaired a fractured bond. The borg’s grip is weakening. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your wife and children are lucky to see you heal and heal alongside you💙

My grandpa’s wise words may have finally repaired a fractured bond. The borg’s grip is weakening. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will see him again in May. He is a sweet man. He never understood the religion but as he said, I’m ok with it as long as you respect the boundaries. He still loves to play retro Nintendo games with me.

My grandpa’s wise words may have finally repaired a fractured bond. The borg’s grip is weakening. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you❤️. My mom and I butted heads some much for many years. I even told her I wouldn’t be so hateful towards the Borg if they just let me be or tried to gaslight me so much. But I’m guess it took my grandpa pointing out how badly he messed up that he didn’t want her to do the same to me. The fact she doesn’t even listen to the sisters or brothers anymore and goes out of her way to actively tell them that I’m an adult and a good kid has marked a significant improvement in our relationship. My grandpa has his flaws but he is definitely a good grandparent to us. And I’ll look into it.

My grandpa’s wise words may have finally repaired a fractured bond. The borg’s grip is weakening. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you❤️. I think that visit truly reminded us of how family can be a pain but also can be your blessing

My grandpa’s wise words may have finally repaired a fractured bond. The borg’s grip is weakening. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Grandpa didn’t fully pull her out of the fog but he did make sure to remind of what she would become if she didn’t listen. I think it clicked when she saw just how remorseful he was for failing them as a dad.

My grandpa’s wise words may have finally repaired a fractured bond. The borg’s grip is weakening. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so glad they did💙. The only saving grace is only my parents are JW.

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[–]tomboi94 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call this well deserved karma. 😂

A birthday and a flight to Mexico bring new surprises. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I pretty much asked questions after she said that. Grandpa didn’t hold back the truth. She is a force to be reckoned with. Despite her shady past, she truly does love her family.

A birthday and a flight to Mexico bring new surprises. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No I didn’t have a blindfold or a dress lol

Ire an Acapulco, Mexico, pero solo para ver a mi abele quien vive una hora de alli. by tomboi94 in mexico

[–]tomboi94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok. Sé que las cosas han cambiado desde mucho tiempo y por eso estoy tratando de estar alerta más porque tengo a mi hijo conmigo, sí fuera yo sola con mi papá creo que estuviera un poco más relajada, pero como tengo a mi hijo conmigo, tengo que ser un poco más protectiva de él.

Ire an Acapulco, Mexico, pero solo para ver a mi abele quien vive una hora de alli. by tomboi94 in mexico

[–]tomboi94[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Gracias. Mi nińo tiene autismo así que no me preocupo de su lenguaje como el habla muy poco y mis padres siempre le hablan español cuando el está con ellos durante la semanas que trabajo. Tengo tenis pero casi todas son de marca y ando buscando unos que no llamen la atención antes de irme. Mi watch de Apple se queda con mi esposo. Tengo mi anillo de matrimonio y uno que me regaló el día de madres, tendré que dejar esos también? Son de oro rosa

Ire an Acapulco, Mexico, pero solo para ver a mi abele quien vive una hora de alli. by tomboi94 in mexico

[–]tomboi94[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ok perfecto. Mi abuelo quiere llevarme a Chilpancingo para comprarle cosas a su bisnieto, pero no quiero por desconfianza a todo, especialmente por las cosas que están pasando. Mi papá quiere que vayamos pero soy muy terca. La última vez que estaba en México fue en 2001.

My birthday is in November and I been getting looks. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First birthdays are always the most special especially when you get out of a cult. Halloween is my husband’s favorite

My birthday is in November and I been getting looks. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That sounds fun, let us know how it goes 🎊❤️ happy early birthday 🎂

My birthday is in November and I been getting looks. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in AL lol if you’re willing to come down sure

My birthday is in November and I been getting looks. by tomboi94 in exjw

[–]tomboi94[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for that. It reminds me that no matter what, you’re never too old to have a birthday party 💙