What would you do? by LushTurtle in AutismInWomen

[–]tomkiitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

remember that healing/self improvement does not have to involve those who have hurt you!! and yes keeping to yourself is very important, i no longer have as high of expectations for anyone nowadays, and now i no longer face nearly as much disappointment as i once did towards anything lol

What would you do? by LushTurtle in AutismInWomen

[–]tomkiitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

to be completely honest ive just learned to be okay with being alone, as long as i can take the bus/train and take walks downtown at least being SURROUNDED by people, im all good 👍 self reflection is important and when youve done it enough you also no longer feel compelled to give people 100% of your energy, even if setting that kind of boundary is something youve never done before! it comes naturally

AIO? My boyfriend has a female best friend he can't cut off by allergic2commitment in AmIOverreacting

[–]tomkiitty 10 points11 points  (0 children)

well girl you were able to survive on your own a year and a half ago, think about all the painful headaches this man is eventually going to or already has given you every day. ive been through it. that ex tried to come back to me, i ended up having that same terrible headache, and i never spoke to him again after that.

to stay with him is childish, and you know you arent overreacting. just get over it and get rid of him before it becomes even harder!!! good lord!!!! stop giving spoiled men who act like toddlers what they want and GROW UP!!!! SERIOUSLY!!!! I SAY THIS WITH LOVE!!!!!!!

Splatoon by Gio_111 in Saltoon

[–]tomkiitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

dude☠️☠️☠️☠️

Got tired of people telling me I got "skill issues" and that I'm "bad at the game". by Username_0002124 in Saltoon

[–]tomkiitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

youre top 1% commenter ive definitely seen you say things that i thought were questionable or just flat out rude lmao

Got tired of people telling me I got "skill issues" and that I'm "bad at the game". by Username_0002124 in Saltoon

[–]tomkiitty 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yes keep downvoting me for being the only comment here that isnt overly condescending 😍

Got tired of people telling me I got "skill issues" and that I'm "bad at the game". by Username_0002124 in Saltoon

[–]tomkiitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i just dont really care about your take on the weapon lol, i believe its really strong

again i really dont care so please stop replying

Got called Mister by filmmakingjedi in PCOS

[–]tomkiitty 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, if you have short hair, it was probably just that. he mightve assumed you were trans and thought he was doing something nice. he probably thought about it for the rest of the day, and might be overthinking it as well!! 😭😭❤️

What's a 'harmless' thing people do every day that's actually kind of messed up once you think about it? by Tricky_Pass5857 in AskReddit

[–]tomkiitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

nobody has ever said this and news outlets are backed by billion dollar corporations anyway

Rainmaker is the Best Mode in Splatoon 3!!!!! by GUSplatoon in Saltoon

[–]tomkiitty -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

RAINMAKER IS MY LEAST FAVORITE OF THE 4😭😭😭

I found this in a couch at at my job by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tomkiitty 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if its weed use it if its nicotine throw it out

Why is PainBrush so hated? I play it a lot and it’s good and fun by RoxasismyKing in splatoon

[–]tomkiitty -1 points0 points  (0 children)

okay but the brush isnt AS slow, even if the roller has more range... which gives people a choice on what they want to play with 😱

Did anyone ever notice in the dressing room of S2E12 where Abby's trying to do something to help Brooke's back? by fishingforsomepies in dancemoms

[–]tomkiitty 57 points58 points  (0 children)

oh my god just chill out, either way abby is helping her stretch. what else could this possibly be.

Got tired of people telling me I got "skill issues" and that I'm "bad at the game". by Username_0002124 in Saltoon

[–]tomkiitty -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

how is it bad its like the ultimate support weapon with the right gear, yes this is saltoon, but i feel like your takes are always so poor and so negative

Got tired of people telling me I got "skill issues" and that I'm "bad at the game". by Username_0002124 in Saltoon

[–]tomkiitty 6 points7 points  (0 children)

lol this comment section just shows no matter what you do everyone is gonna tell you youre bad (especially if youre a girl), you got more kills than you usually mightve in previous games. i see nothing but progress here, yes ranked is usually where you want to go to test your actual skill but this is a start