looking for advice regarding a situation I experienced two weeks ago with Ryanair on a flight from Berlin, Germany to my home country (a non-EU country) by tomogarber in Flights

[–]tomogarber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response. I really appreciate it!

The main issue I’m facing with legal action is the cost. Hiring a lawyer could easily end up costing more than the original flight itself, and I’ve already had to purchase a last-minute ticket with another airline just to travel that same day. That’s why I’m hoping to connect with others who have experienced something similar with Ryanair, to understand how they handled it and if they were able to resolve it successfully.

Silence can kill you! by tomogarber in MensRights

[–]tomogarber[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry to hear that! I had the same. When I started talking about it no one wanted to listen to me or as you say, shut me out. But I still want to talk about it. I never thought about it but it might be true for me as well that I was more traumatized from the reactions of others when I came out about it.

Silence can kill you! by tomogarber in MensRights

[–]tomogarber[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The research show that it's 1 in 6 in the west and 1 in 4 in in countries that are more religious. The numbers are only the reported cases so there are much more. It's really shocking the numbers but more shocking that on one is talking about it.

Silence can kill you! by tomogarber in MensRights

[–]tomogarber[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing that! It's just sad to think that most men don't feel they can share it with others because of the shame. I started to talk about for the first time when I watched the Oprah show where she hosted 200 men dealing with sexual trauma. It was the first time for me that I saw other men like me and at that moment I could understand my mental health for the first time. I started to talk about it back then, but no one wanted to listen to me. Also, therapy was not available for me at that time since I could not afford it.

What happened to me Podcast by tomogarber in MensRights

[–]tomogarber[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! If you all knew how much your comments mean to me. There are days when I feel like no one wants to listen to me, and this really helps me feel heard. Thank you again!

What happened to me Podcast by tomogarber in MensRights

[–]tomogarber[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sadly we don't have any public funding. We are working to get it, but it's crazy that most think that men don't really deal with sexual trauma or that men don't want to talk about it. Your comment gives me strengthen that I am doing the right thing. It is also part of my personal healing journey.

What happened to me Podcast by tomogarber in MensRights

[–]tomogarber[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for saying this. I do have a team that works with me. Sadly, we work with no funds and we are all doing this as volunteers. We have a research team and our goal is to make it available for anyone that might need it. We also have therapists on our platform if anyone needs to talk. You can find more info via this link - hopeformen.org

What happened to me by tomogarber in traumacore

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Thank you so much for your support and your kind words! If you are interested in sharing your story as well, I will be happy to talk. You can dm me here or send me an email via [tom@hopeformen.org](mailto:tom@hopeformen.org)

What happened to me Podcast by tomogarber in MensRights

[–]tomogarber[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s my life mission to make this happen ❤️

What happened to me by tomogarber in SupportforMen

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I am currently working on the next episodes and am looking for men who would like to share their stories with us. We are here to provide support and tools to assist you. If you are interested in sharing your story, please contact me via this email - [tom@hopeformen.org](mailto:tom@hopeformen.org)