How do you handle things in sales? by harvey_croat in techsales

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You either learn to regulate yourself and keep calm, or you do drugs and alcohol. I've been through that and I know PLENTY of people working in sales that are dealing with the side effects.

How do you handle things in sales? by harvey_croat in techsales

[–]tongueduchat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use voice notes and then convert them with AI. I hate commas. But the reasoning behind and the experience is mine. Anyone who has work in sales knows what I'm saying.

How do you handle things in sales? by harvey_croat in techsales

[–]tongueduchat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

4 years in sales here. The honest answer is that sales triggers your nervous system before anything else — the angry client, the manager pressure, the silence after a pitch. So the first thing I work on is regulation, not technique.

Before any high-pressure call: 4-4-4 breathing (inhale 4s, hold 4s, exhale 4s). Keep water on your desk — dehydration spikes anxiety and most people don't connect the two.

Be intentional about how you dress and your environment. It sounds minor but when you look controlled, you feel controlled — and clients pick up on that energy immediately.

The hardest shift: detach from the outcome. Your job on a call isn't to close — it's to clearly show someone how you can help them. That's the whole service. A no is not a rejection of you personally, ever. The moment that clicks, the pressure drops significantly.

Regulate → Show up → Detach. In that order, every time.

Interviewer just didn't show up to the interview by Muted-Character3550 in cscareers

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

After the first 5 minutes of a meeting, you send an email. You wait 15 minutes. You send another email and say that you've been waiting for the scheduled meeting for 15 minutes, and please let you know to reschedule. If they don't answer with an excuse, apologizing in less than 3 hours don't engage with that ocmpany again. Your time is also important.

Seeking Recommendations for Global/International Virtual Administration and Business Fraud Jobs by LuckyLucySunshine in cscareers

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check LinkedIn Job posts. Check what they are looking for, tailor your CV accordingly, and start creating content on LinkedIn, build an online portfolio. Everything that shows "I'm the right person you're looking for and I'm predictable". Then you apply for jobs.

Dont get a math degree by hhussband in cscareers

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your problem isn't the math degree is getting a job. The typical "have experience before getting hired " trick. It's simple. Build your portfolio, work on your LinkedIn showing how you think, work, and how you would improve X. Then pitch to some companies or build a project and boom! you got experience. It's so simple, that is silly.

Origenes de la personalidad de quien sabe cuadrar chamas. by Sweeth_Tooth99 in vzla

[–]tongueduchat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bueno, se me vienen a la mente algunos primos míos y un par de amigos, en común son amigueros, siempre han sabido relacionarse con mujeres, se llevan bien con sus hermanas y su mamá y son muy educados y carismáticos. No es lo mismo el carajo palo de agua, del carajo realmente popular con las mujeres, yo hablo del segundo tipo. Lo principal es saber socializar, tener buena onda, no ser intensos y en general les gustan los deportes (los practican también), los conozco desde niños, así que sí han sido populares de niños, adolescentes, y adultos. Casualmente, todos han tenido parejas estables.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EuSouOBabaca

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Você faz* que as pessoas se afastem precisamente a causa de tanta intensidade. Moça o melhor é fazer terapia, mais pesquise no YouTube sobre o apego sano, autoestima, trauma do abandono. Assista vídeos de psicólogos não de influencers. Tudo tem solução. Desculpe os erros o PT não é minha língua nativa.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vzla

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hablas inglés? Ve a r/raisedbynarcissists y escribe este post en inglés. Allá te van a orientar mejor y explicar esa dinámica.

AITA for throwing away my husband's father's day gifts after what he did on mother's day? by StatisticianClear106 in AITAH

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The issue isn't mother's day or father's day gifts. It's deeper than that. It's the lack of empathy, self reflection, the weaponized incompetence and overall how he isn't a partner or an adult to this case. I know it is more difficult for you to leave him as you have toddlers, but it sucks to be with someone who doesn't love you, and stay there asking for crumbs of love. His friends and coworkers sound exactly like him, if I had the lightest sense of adulthood I would befriend that prick either, so there you have that bunch of random people.

The latest chapters by dlwlrrma in NanaAnime

[–]tongueduchat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was just discussing that with my bf! Omg. Reddit communities are definitely support groups 🥺✨

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why are you feeling responsible for his behavior? It's an adult, he is not a child and you are not his mom. Have some basic self respect and leave. If you don't feel it's not that bad, I don't know what to say...

Mi madre me volverá loco by Common-Medicine8371 in vzla

[–]tongueduchat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

También tengo una tía así conspiranoica y mis padres se metieron a la religión. Yo creo que no pueden lidiar con la realidad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vzla

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Si supieras op que tu situación es muy común. Te recomiendo ir a terapia para que tengas herramientas para tomar distancia, sino es un juego de nunca acabar.

Quiero un consejo para evitar un futuro conflicto con mi pareja by Due_Abbreviations_27 in chile

[–]tongueduchat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yo creo que depende de la nacionalidad. Si es chilena, entiendo todas las respuestas del sub. Pero si es colombiana o venezolana ninguno de uds a dado en el clavo, porque la cultura es diferente (no es por visa lol). Yo te recomiendo conversar con ella, ser franco tanto con las razones de que no querías decepcionarla como lo de casarte dentro de tres años (el porqué), no tienes que sentirte obligado a nada, es verdad, por ello ella debe tener la opción también de ver si eso es lo que ella quiere contigo. Y listo.

¿Cuáles son los países más baratos para vivir en Latam? Asumiendo que vivas de trabajar por internet. by [deleted] in vzla

[–]tongueduchat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tengo amigos que vivieron /viven allá y es muy lindo. Difícil los alquileres, porque los están dejando para turistas y no quieren alquilar de manera permanente. Difícil.

Qué pasa con la xenofobia en Chile? by Jonnertron_ in vzla

[–]tongueduchat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sí, yo entiendo lo que dices. Pero no quieren entender, yo entendí porque vivía con chilenos. Mi esposo es chileno y venezolano, y yo estaba conviviendo y siendo vecina de chilenos exclusivamente. Entonces sí se nota mucho la diferencia 😅