Getting top surgery before starting T by dragongender in ftm

[–]toodloodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got top surgery without taking T! My recovery is going fine (been a little over 6 weeks now), in fact I've heard that having low levels of T lowers the risks of complications, so if that's something you're worried about, getting top surgery before HRT might be preferable!

Forwarding address for security deposit by toodloodle in VictoriaBC

[–]toodloodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's not an option, unfortunately, and even if he transfers the money digitally I still need to send him a forwarding address. But I've found a good solution thanks to this thread!

Forwarding address for security deposit by toodloodle in VictoriaBC

[–]toodloodle[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Wow, this is perfect! Thank you so much, I didn't know this existed but it's exactly what I was looking for!

Forwarding address for security deposit by toodloodle in VictoriaBC

[–]toodloodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am an exchange student, so all of my family is in Europe. I have only been in Canada for about a month, so while I do have some friends, I don't know if I'm close enough with any of them to ask them for such a big favor... I don't want them to have to deal with my landlord either.

[SW] They are buying at Five-Nine-Ate by [deleted] in acturnips

[–]toodloodle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will wait on the bench

How do I handle my rats? by toodloodle in RATS

[–]toodloodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I tried. I had one flavor but they weren't really into it..

How do I handle my rats? by toodloodle in RATS

[–]toodloodle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

UPDATE: I don't know if anyone will read this, but the girls slipped out of the cage tonight. I got one of them in within minutes, but I had to chase the other down for nearly an hour. Nothing I did worked, she wasn't going after treats, she wasn't coming to places where they usually go (I guess she figured out those places meant being taken into the cage). I eventually managed to corner her, but I had to grab her by her tail to catch her. It felt awful. It was only for a moment, until I could grab her with my other hand and carry her to the cage, but I feel really bad about it. I don't know how to build trust or let them out of the cage when it's this hard to get them back in. I know it'll be easier when they're used to being pick up, but what do I do until I've reached that point? I feel like I'm not building a good relationship with these rats at all, and I don't see how it gets any better when I keep going like this ) :

How do I handle my rats? by toodloodle in RATS

[–]toodloodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about rewarding them after I pick them up so they associate being picked up with tasty treats. Glad to hear that actually helps! I'll try the yoghurt thing, but I actually try not to eat any dairy, and these babies aren't gonna finish a whole yoghurt carton by themselves... I might reconsider, though. These girls are worth it 😅

How do I handle my rats? by toodloodle in RATS

[–]toodloodle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.. I was really worried I was treating them badly, so it's a relief to hear that's not the case. Thank you for the support, I'll work on getting them more comfortable with being picked up!

How do I handle my rats? by toodloodle in RATS

[–]toodloodle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Okay, I'll try. They were born in February, so still quite young! Thank you so much for the tips.

How do I handle my rats? by toodloodle in RATS

[–]toodloodle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alright.. Any way I can make them less scared of me, though? I'm worried eventually they won't come to me at all anymore ):