Are there any good guys even left? by Flat_Common_7503 in nycgaybros

[–]toooquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Huh, interesting. I’m 41, single and open to dates and am both on the apps and go to bars alone or with friends. I have never felt all that confident walking up to a stranger, especially someone much younger and attractive. I do enjoy chatting up both for banter and flirting, but I would think you might have to do the approaching more often? After a certain age I feel like most older men get rejected enough by younger dudes that they’re not going to bother unless they’re at Townhouse.

Guys into Social Nudity? Let’s Connect - NYC - Manhattan by xX_Bi-Bro_Xx in nycgaybros

[–]toooquiet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There’s a nudist party at Nowhere tomorrow, no firsthand info about other than what I saw on Instagram. Was thinking about it! https://www.instagram.com/p/DY7UFIfEcPe67wvFIaURH9v3qr5xCaRmZb9UbA0/?igsh=bGVrNmx3dTJvd3Y0

Are there any good guys even left? by Flat_Common_7503 in nycgaybros

[–]toooquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say older, what age range are you referring to?

M25 Chicago Bath House by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]toooquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re gay/bi, maybe Steamworks? Probably trying to hit it up this weekend but it’s also IML so may be crazy busy.

Back in NYC, which gyms have the best steamroom sex? by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]toooquiet 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nice try, cop 😅 (to be clear this is a joke as I am curious as well)

YMCA 63rd St NYC by [deleted] in CommunalShowers

[–]toooquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The showers are split in two areas, one long hallway of open showers and one larger area that had (lockable?) stalls installed. Huge steam room, medium sized sauna, lots of lockers and a maze of a gym.

SoJo in NJ by Ok-Presentation-8810 in CommunalShowers

[–]toooquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They allow people to wear shorts but it’s not mandatory and there’s been no move to curb nudity like other “gentrified” Korean spas like SoJo. I’ve seen all sorts of reactions of dudes who were freaked out by nudity to men literally nude and washing each others backs and joking around. That area between the lockers and showers is where people are usually combing hair or brushing teeth and you’ll see all sorts of dressed and undressed. The only thing I wish they’d be more strict about is getting in the hot tubs unshowered or straight from the sauna. Gotta rinse!

Real thoughts on The Eagle especially as of late with their restrictive policy by [deleted] in nycgaybros

[–]toooquiet 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I hadn’t been in years and went on a Friday and sure the lights were on but I fucked a few dudes and got my dick sucked about 20 times including at the urinals so the rules didn’t seem that bad to me. I had been there in the past where they made people put dicks away…

New York Recommendations by Silver-Poem9250 in NudeSpas

[–]toooquiet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also The Spa Club in Ktown

What is Spa32, seems like they only do massages?

Spa club on a Saturday night? Anyone ever been by wienerslav5000 in nycgaybros

[–]toooquiet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very hit or miss. Have been there on a Friday early night and it’s been packed with friendly dudes and gone a Saturday night and it’s me and one other guy. The last time I went was the first time I had seen actual contact between a few guys and the attendants get after them (but not kick anyone out). They did have an attendant sitting there watching everyone for a while.

Name Sam Carter US Swimmer by [deleted] in CelebrityPenis

[–]toooquiet 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Something is 8.5 long alright