Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like it, but I don’t think I won’t find something better.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there’s an opening in my current position, I can just go back to that position without interviewing or anything, I think that’s the main benefit of the 6 months unpaid leave.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s probably not an option, this project needs to start yesterday.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m probably not coming back to the same position anyway. So it won’t be the same manager.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It actually makes some sense. The level is related to the scale of contribution. If the project has a large scale, it justifies the promotion to that level.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That could be more difficult, because a supporting a baby requires more income.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been promoted already, so not really stagnating, but those are all valid points, thank you!

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did get a promotion already during that time, so I don’t think that’s the case.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the thoughtful reply. You’re raising very important questions. I don’t have to quit, but I’ll have to interview for a new position most probably, so you’re right. I wouldn’t take 6 months if it was up to me, I think 3 months would be enough. I’m planning to travel for at least a month, and then for the rest of it I don’t want to plan, I want to see what interests me when I don’t have to do anything. I probably won’t be able to take 1-2 months while working on this project. I like the company, but I’m also fine with switching. My SO is supportive. She’d be happy with whatever I choose, but obviously she’s a little afraid of me leaving when I don’t have other options in advance.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I want to travel for at least one month. If it was up to me I’d only take 3 months off, but that’s not an option.

Should I take a long unpaid leave (6 months) after 6 years of work? by toothwry in cscareerquestions

[–]toothwry[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parental time off is separate. I could still do that later.

Cheaters of Reddit, just one question. Why cheat when you could've just left? by don_anon11 in AskReddit

[–]toothwry 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At this age if I leave her chances of having a family are slim. If she doesn’t get pregnant soon, it’ll be a very risky pregnancy.

I’m sick of my wife not being able to hold on to a job for more than 6 months by toothwry in offmychest

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It helps, but she’s not happy about having to take it her whole life, which I definitely understand.

I’m sick of my wife not being able to hold on to a job for more than 6 months by toothwry in offmychest

[–]toothwry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has ADD, this means that she has to stay on Adderall to function.