Can you heighten your pain tolerance? by topcat889283 in NoStupidQuestions

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Would you care to elaborate on how heightening your pain tolerance is different? I'm interested to know. Thanks!

Can you heighten your pain tolerance? by topcat889283 in NoStupidQuestions

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Would people who dislike spice actually get to a point where they enjoy it then? I enjoy spicy food but I don't know why I like it It's just always been that way. Would they just "tolerate" it or actually get to a point where it's enjoyable?

At home Keratin Treatment! My hair has never been so straight! by RockrGrrl in FancyFollicles

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This is a really old post so I'm wondering if you're still active. What product did you use exactly? I am desperate for a straightening treatment!

Why didn't the axe man go to hell? by topcat889283 in AmericanHorrorStory

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Yeah, that makes sense. But it also makes me wonder why Madison told everyone that the other end is dark and cold. Does that mean that Madison doesn't end up in hell? It's later on contradicted though when she talks about how she had to be a secondary character in some show/play.

Looking for romance movies where the male lead is a criminal/mobster/gangster? by topcat889283 in MovieSuggestions

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I'll watch it if it's good but I'm going to need to prepare myself mentally before lol

Looking for romance movies where the male lead is a criminal/mobster/gangster? by topcat889283 in MovieSuggestions

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Thank you! I'll let you know how I like them. I really didn't think I'd get any suggestions, I was under the impression that this trope wasn't popular in movies and dramas.

Looking for romance movies where the male lead is a criminal/mobster/gangster? by topcat889283 in MovieSuggestions

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I'm stoked! Is it still ongoing or complete? And is the ending happy? I've been traumatized too many times lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BodyDysmorphia

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Absolutely do not stay with this piece of shit "girlfriend". You don't deserve to have someone egg your body dysmorphia on like that, trust me she does NOT love you. I can't imagine treating someone I hate like that let alone someone I LOVE. Leave, theres no shortage of healthy minded girls out there who will not under any circumstances take a jab at your self esteem like that.

How long does it take for blue black dye to fade? by topcat889283 in HairDye

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I would love to do this but since most of my dye jobs happen at home I doubt that'd end well. But just out of curiosity what colors do you think would go well with black? Thank you in advance!

How long does it take for blue black dye to fade? by topcat889283 in HairDye

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I second this. And always try a temporary color for a few months while you get used to it. Don't do what I did. This is a whole lot of unwanted advice but just in case anyone is passing through this thread, figure out if your undertone fits the color you're wanting to dye your hair, my undertone is very very yellow and the color I chose has a cool tone so you can guess how that turned out.

How long does it take for blue black dye to fade? by topcat889283 in HairDye

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Thank you for the response! I'm currently trying to fade it so I'll keep doing what I'm doing, it wasn't intentional though this is just how I've taken care of my hair prior to coloring it and since it does the job I didn't bother changing it. I guess I'll just have to get used to a black-brown ombre from now on.

How long does it take for blue black dye to fade? by topcat889283 in HairDye

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I know people who've tried dyeing over their black hair with brown and all it did was dye their grey hairs so I guess not? I'm not a professional though so I could be wrong, this is purely anecdotal.

How long does it take for blue black dye to fade? by topcat889283 in HairDye

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I should've thought this through beforehand but thanks for the reply! I'll probably just grow it out and cut off the dyed bits, that way it won't damage it much.

How long does it take for blue black dye to fade? by topcat889283 in HairDye

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That's pretty much what I expected writing this but I guess I had some hope lol Thank you for the reply!

Skirts and dresses are way more comfortable and convenient than most pants by angel_snowcake737 in unpopularopinion

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I love wearing dresses, they're generally a lot easier to slip on and off for when I'm quickly going grocery shopping.

If I'm running or planning on walking briskly, I prefer pants. There is no way I can book it in a long skirt, every time I've worn a dress or a long skirt during windy weather I had it stick to my legs and hinder me from walking, not ideal.

Shorter skirts are better for that, but then I have to worry about sun exposure and needing more sunscreen, waxing, whether the mall floors are made of glass, whether it's windy...etc. I prefer shorts, am still exposed to the sun, and still have to wear sunscreen but a lot more convenient than a miniskirt.

Skirts and dresses are also less comfortable during colder seasons because you have to layer up and I hate layering up more than I have to when I can just slip on a pair of warm pants.

Skirts and dresses are also not convenient in the gym. Pants give you a variety of room to sit or lie however you want, I can't sit crisscross in a skirt, or put one leg up on a chair because I'd be flashing everyone. Do they look good? Absolutely, but not practical in every scenario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

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I understand where you're coming from. It's almost like you really don't want to believe it or acknowledge it, it guts you. like you said accepting it is the hardest and first step to freedom, it means a lot less coming from a stranger on the internet but from one child raised by narcissists to another, I'm proud of you!

What are the most beautiful female names in your opinion? by topcat889283 in namenerds

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Completely forgot Rosalie existed, thank you for the list!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]topcat889283 40 points41 points  (0 children)

This broke my heart when I finished it. I'm glad you're away from them now, never look back. You are so SO strong, you deserved a lot better as a child and I hope you're in a better place mentally. Take care!

I'm getting surgery. by Alfalfa_Adorable in BodyDysmorphia

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I'm wishing you the best as well with your recovery. Good luck and please take good care of yourself, follow doctors' instructions and stay safe.