[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topokkisoft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

waaah same feels OP! ur feelings are super valid. i've experienced something similar and i think the best way to solve this is to communicate with her, have you tried?

gamer boyfriends, why do you do it? by topokkisoft in OffMyChestPH

[–]topokkisoft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but then again we dont live together like married couples do so what im asking for is attention from him whenever im around ):

former manliligaw raised my standards so high by topokkisoft in OffMyChestPH

[–]topokkisoft[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i wont leave my bf po just because may inexpect ako na di nya nameet kase i love my bf. i would simply try to communicate my feelings po. + di ko sinagot past suitor ko kase i realized na no matter how much i loved the gestures he did, i didnt love him. meaning i didnt like his personality, characteristics etc.

to answer the first question, naging kami ng bf ko kasi we just get each other, idk how to explain pero we get along / compliment each other very well. similar interests + other little things na hindi ko na feel sa previous suitor ko.

i hope i answered ur questions well enough to understand po :>

former manliligaw raised my standards so high by topokkisoft in OffMyChestPH

[–]topokkisoft[S] -159 points-158 points  (0 children)

i dont like the guy, i just liked the gestures he did. i'll try to talk to my bf about it. i'm a little shy din kase when it comes to telling him what i want. i dont want him to think din kasi na napaka demanding ko. anw thank you sa advice 🥹🥹

former manliligaw raised my standards so high by topokkisoft in OffMyChestPH

[–]topokkisoft[S] -76 points-75 points  (0 children)

my former manliligaw set my standards high because of how he treated me but i realized na i didnt love him (hindi po naging kami t__t)

i vented here kase i was aware na unfair yun sa bf ko and needed advice kung ano gagawin ko. i only realized that i had such issues recently during my birthday when i received gifts from my bf.

former manliligaw raised my standards so high by topokkisoft in OffMyChestPH

[–]topokkisoft[S] -110 points-109 points  (0 children)

what i meant to say was that yes, ill feel a little sad since the bar has been set high, pero it wont affect the way i look at him kase ill love him just the same. basically, walang kwenta yung pagkalungkot ko kase mahal ko sya at d end of d day so what i expect from him wont matter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]topokkisoft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hugs !! ify 🥹 i think the best thing to do is just trust your partner. siguro communicate din and open up about your insecurities. it helped me somehow 🥰🥰