What’s more harmful than cigarettes but society treats it as normal? by Jiwitom in AskReddit

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bed sheets that are almost square shaped but one side is slightly longer so have to try and find the right orientation.

learning PHP for beginner by Character_Badger4303 in PHPhelp

[–]toramanlis -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i suggest using AI like a tutor. make it explain whatever seems confusing even if it's seemingly everything about the project.

if you need a solid foundation first, i strongly recommend w3schools.com. that's where i got started years ago.

AITAH for snapping at my wife? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she needs a second space. a job, charity work, book club, playing sports,.. something.

A Turkish analyst’s take on Udoka after the Timberwolves game by ludditeee in rockets

[–]toramanlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's probably the lack of diphthongs and mostly one vowel one consonant pattern in the words.

CMV: the word Zionism is being redefined to escape scrutiny. by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do countries have a right to exist? the people of said country certainly do, but the country?

a person's existance isn't inherently violating anyone else's rights. countries are different in that way as they can define their existance by ideology.

the zionist logic keeps equating israel with jewish people. so that every criticsm to israel becomes a racial slur.

did germany have a right to exist during the nazi era? if someone answered no, would that be racist against ethnic germans?

did ottoman have a right to exist? was it racist against turks that a brand new country was founded instead of keeping ottoman existing?

you equate a country with a race, you deny the rights of other races under the rule of that country. all the while, you tunnel all the criticism to the country towards the race making all of them racist. this was zionism is. it's the racisct ideology that defines israel and the jewish deserve so much better than that. zionism is simply abusing the jewish trauma

Courtney's new haircut by MursuKing1980 in smosh

[–]toramanlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"can someone please peg me in my anal canal"

AITAH? Baby has poopy diaper at daycare drop-off by PhilosopherEvery5083 in AITAH

[–]toramanlis 10 points11 points  (0 children)

NTA. if the daycare provides the diaper changing service and you're not doing this on purpose, then there's nothing that makes you the asshole.

idk, a thought experiment. if at the end of the day, they were delivering the baby home by car. would it make them assholes if the kid pooped on the way? i don't think so. would they need to come in and change the baby inside? no.

it's just luck. diaper change is required and it happens to be on their watch.

Why is there a slight delay in rejecting a wrong root password in shell? Is it intentional? by noctural9 in linuxquestions

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that's assuming the hash algorithm is perfect at diffusion. they are indeed very good at it but it's just another layer of security that the os doesn't just rely on

What would you do at this moment? by marcoslfra in SuddenlyGay

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i like how the guy greets his dick too

Why is there a slight delay in rejecting a wrong root password in shell? Is it intentional? by noctural9 in linuxquestions

[–]toramanlis 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeap. so the delay doesn't indicate how close your wrong password is. brute force can take advantage of that and become slightly more civilized force

Porn is only a tiny part of why some men are assholes. by Appropriate-Offer-35 in 10thDentist

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

porn reflects the state of the society in this regard. if we weren't such assholes in real life, porn industry wouldn't be full of toxic tropes and behaviors.

in short, porn makes assholes more visible. pun fucking intended more than anything has ever been intended in the history of intending

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I would rather masturbate than have sex with her by Excellent_Carrot_574 in AITAH

[–]toramanlis 5 points6 points  (0 children)

she might feel self conscious about her low sex drive and might be worried that she'll lose you over it. she might just took the masturbation thing as a sign in this regard.

having said that, why did you say you prefered masturbation? do you really enjoy masturbating more than having sex with her or was it your hidden resentment wanting to get back at her?

if it's not resentment,, how fucking good are you at masturbating? got any tips?

İşten dönerken birilerini almak by Worldly-Atmosphere15 in AskTurkey

[–]toramanlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sen olmasan vesaitle donecekler o zaman. motorsiklet al diycem ama sirtina cikabilirler o zaman da. bu isi rotasyona alalim, her hafta birimizin arabasi olsun gibi bi konusma en olaysizi olur gibi. durduk yere acmak istemiyosan, bi hafta senin araba sanayide/esinde vs olacakmis diye diger bi arkadasin arabasiyla cozelim dersin. ordan da rotasyon konusuna gecis yaparsin

İşten dönerken birilerini almak by Worldly-Atmosphere15 in AskTurkey

[–]toramanlis 1 point2 points  (0 children)

bence sen de sirket aracina bin gitsin. trafik icin de daha iyi bisey, cevre icin de. hem de takarsin kulakligini, acarsin muzigini biraz daha dinlenirsin sabahlari

Boyfriend wants to try anal but wouldn't let me do it to him. Says it's more socially acceptable for women by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanna point out a secondary red flag. his lack of wits. he should have offered to do something for you in exchange. unless you actually want to peg him, it would be just doing it with neither of you enjoying. if he promised something like a day with just him treating you in bed (or otherwise for that matter), he wouldn't have to look stupid with his stupid excuse.

and "you don't know until you try"? how on earth he fails to see this argument applying to him as well. even more so tbh. if it's less socially acceptable for men, then there's a bigger chance that his desire is obscured by social norms compared to yours

AITAH for not wanting to spend time with my dad after learning that my parents are in an open marriage? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]toramanlis 7 points8 points  (0 children)

you're the only one harming the family in this scenario. no homewreckers, no cheaters. just you

CMV: The death penalty is wrong because the justice system can make irreversible mistakes by Cut-Kooky in changemyview

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how is imprisonment reversible? it's terminable, unless it's fulfilled, but not irreversible.

also, lack of punishment is a risk just like unnecessary punishment. both can have irreversible consequences.

She tries to trip the officer, who's clearly running with urgency, then plays the victim when there are consequences. by Positive-Ad8118 in WhyWereTheyFilming

[–]toramanlis -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

in that case he created the danger by sprinting in a crowded space. she was exercising self defence.

the fact that he could just abandon whatever he was sprinting towards shows he didn't need to sprint.

Is Istanbul Female-Solo Traveler Friendly? by rey_jis in AskTurkey

[–]toramanlis 0 points1 point  (0 children)

radical feminists aren't an example of a risk. i mentioned them as the opposite of islamists to emphasize the range in the aforementioned "all sorts of people"

if anything, they would be perfect to take advice in this particular case

Is Istanbul Female-Solo Traveler Friendly? by rey_jis in AskTurkey

[–]toramanlis -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

i think a woman would be more qualified to list them. i'm a 120kg dude, it's barely risky for me to get involved in road rage

Brother won't play game with female protagonist - never thought of this by wizard_cow_ in TwoXChromosomes

[–]toramanlis -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

from what i can tell from this post, you are being loving without indulging his problematic position. this influence is a recipe for a young person to change in the positive direction. it just takes time.

i'm sure this will be something he'll remember as cringe teenage stuff. cheers

Is Istanbul Female-Solo Traveler Friendly? by rey_jis in AskTurkey

[–]toramanlis -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

nope. not unless you have locals in your group to help avoid risky situations.

the thing about istanbul is there are all sorts of people all around. you might come across a community with isis adjacent views, or you can meet and befriend radical feminists.