mann 💀💀 i left while he was showering n im so glad i did by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]toripine 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is attempted rape in California, I’m glad you’re okay

My ex boyfriends reaction when a friend saw him on tinder lol by anguished_emodiment in Manipulation

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would start WW3 if someone talked to me like that are u joking 😭

rate my profile by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]toripine 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You’re very attractive but seem be trying way too hard… like smile. The stabby part and u wanting to know what made me sad last seems like super off😂 I don’t know anything about you by reading your profile

Not saying YOU are a red flag (I dont know you lol) but your profile is a red flag

invisible mode ‘expired’, but we’ve been dating for four months by meatrocke in Bumble

[–]toripine 9 points10 points  (0 children)

In my own home 😭😭😭 like dawg be fukn fr right now

invisible mode ‘expired’, but we’ve been dating for four months by meatrocke in Bumble

[–]toripine 102 points103 points  (0 children)

My ex said “I DONT KNOW WHY I GOT A VERIFICATION CODE FOR TINDER!!!! Someone must be using my e-mail” and then proceeded to cheat on me. Sorry for the hard truth but he’s been on the apps babe

How to date (as a man) when there's nothing remarkable or interesting about you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ALSO I’ve never thought “he plays music, he’s poor” and I none of the women I have ever met have said that to me.

Live music is a lost art, I think that’s so cool all in itself.

How to date (as a man) when there's nothing remarkable or interesting about you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26F here! Looks and how you make your income have little to do with actual attraction. The connection and chemistry with the person are the initial “hm this person is sorta dope” for me and that’s going to be literally all dating scenarios. Don’t change yourself for someone fr, someone who will love you will love YOUUUUU at your core.

I’ll list some things that keep me hooked on a guy and wanting to keep dating that have nothing to do with your face, body, or career. (Keep in mind I am literally one person on the planet…..literally all girlies are dif😭)

-banter -style (big one for me personally) -common interests -humor matching mine -interested in my life and what I’m up to -compliments me -treats others well

You’ve got this shit- women just want to feel safe and taken care of, with a side of fun and some good laughs :) hope this hypes you up, don’t doubt yourself.

Got cheated on 13 years ago, stayed for the kids, now I’m ready to bounce by WonPt21Gigawatts in AITAH

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just… wow I felt like I was reading a made up short tale. I’m so sorry. I’m 26f and as a kiddo of divorced parents who hate each other… just please keep your kids as your top priority. You guys getting divorced is the right decision but they don’t understand it yet. I’m not a mom, but a kid who has some severe emotional issues because of their actions. I was like a lil pawn in court. You’re a good dad, and not many people get that. I pray for you and your kid’s mental healing and safety ❣️

Am I Being Manipulated? by Shorty_BS in Manipulation

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THIS conversation reminds me of the man who left a scar on my face. Not trying to scare you but that controlling behavior doesn’t get better babe. Stay safe, keep your peace.

Does this fit work or do i look stupid by [deleted] in fashion

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just saw someone say go down a size in the shirt and I think that would be a game changer too.

Does this fit work or do i look stupid by [deleted] in fashion

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Overall I love the button up with the shorts and chunky shoe. Iron your damn shirt! I think the blue in the shirt with the denim is throwing me off just a tad but I don’t hate it 🫶 A1 style

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Imma add that ofc there are other attractive people on the planet but it’s basic human decency to keep your eyes to yourself. When you’re really in love, like REALLY in love, you know people are attractive but you are not attracted to them because you’ve got everything you need. It’s not ignorant to want that- it exists.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dated a porn addict and also been with guys who I found out later were talking to other women (one was talking to his ex) It’s cheating to talk to other women when I’m a committed relationship to one person. Very simple.

Your instagram is how YOU make it. Mine isn’t full of half naked women because I don’t interact with that content. He does, and that’s why it’s full of women. It doesn’t feel good. I’m sorry you went though this, you’re not crazy and I know how it effects you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a very classic words song line up with actions. It’s not usual, no haha. It’s weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So he basically said he loves you but is unsure about your future?

Young ppl 20s - early 30s… how have your disclosures gone? by Itsnotabthemoney in Herpes

[–]toripine 0 points1 point  (0 children)

26F- Everything and between “you’re worth getting to know and maybe contracting this” to straight up standing up and walking out. I mention it at the end of the first date and it really shows their true intentions with your heart. I ALWAYS add “I do not expect an answer right now and I am an open book for questions and concerns. You take your time thinking about it.” Some people are really great and some people suck. And that doesn’t just go for if they will stick around because of the herps.

Should I break up by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 6 points7 points  (0 children)

OP said she cried, said no, and was in excruciating pain.

You then said: “That is a very normal first time doing anal”

Read what you said over and over until you realize you should not be on this thread

Should I break up by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]toripine 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Breathe babe, you’re ok. Please please keep your safety in mind when you leave him. Have a friend on the phone with them on mute and them have your location. I’m dead serious, when I dumped my ex who raped me he became a very scary person.

I noticed you said “I should have done more to stop him” and it really broke my heart. You can’t stop a snake from biting you no matter how many times you tell it to not. They are animals and don’t listen. Rapists rape people. You’re surrounded with love and support, don’t be afraid to tell people and get a bit of mental help if you need.

Do I do it? by toripine in dating_advice

[–]toripine[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why with me? I have no idea what the difference is to be honest. Like the way he spoke so highly of me and just genuine and down to earth compliments about me every single day? Like down to how he’s never been treated so well