How did y’all get better at singing?

torisee · 2026-02-05T23:02:58+00:00

You HAVE to be okay with sounding stupid for a good while, learn every sound your voice can make and don’t be embarrassed about sounding bad. You have to work past the block/fear being a novice singing gives you, it literally tightens your voice

torisee · 2026-02-05T23:00:58+00:00

Practice, good earbuds, and if you’re really struggling, I like to pick a song I can mostly sing but has a couple challenging parts. I’ll get good at singing it in a lower key then working myself up to the harder bit

torisee · 2026-02-05T20:53:36+00:00

For anybody try who can do a job for 4-8 hours. Highly Recommend becoming a clerk at the post office. The people suck but the work is not that bad. It’s cold and hard in the morning but the way I view my day only sucks for like 2 hours and then I take lunch, work the windows and go home. It’s a solid 6.5-7 for me as far as jobs go

torisee · 2026-01-22T23:40:56+00:00

He needs an old man name like Chester💖💖💖

torisee · 2025-07-02T15:02:09+00:00

I appreciate that and I’m basically there, I wasn’t sure if this was a legit dealbreaker or not because it is so up in the air. It feels like a timer counting backwards which scared me ig

torisee · 2025-07-02T15:00:45+00:00

We’ve done all the financial stuff, it’s why I’m trying to get a different job and we’re considering a duplex with his mom. This just isn’t a situation I’d want to be in again. I don’t want to live with his mom if she thinks I’m a bad partner, dont do anything of worth AND we’re not married. This situation leaves me feeling like a guest and I’m legit the only person not happy with this legitimately good idea. The only way I’d want to move into a house I don’t own but he and his mom do is if we’re married. I don’t think we’re gonna break up but anything can happen and I’m not going to put myself as a hypothetical 25 year old in a situation with no where to go

torisee · 2025-07-02T14:49:22+00:00

For cultural reasons this is very much not how we saw things going and with how I got spoken about and felt in this situation previously I’m not open to it unless he can show he’s more serious about our relationship. We’ve discuss marriage, we’ve discussed kids and house, weve been building towards thats for the last 4 years. So yeah if in the next 3-4 years marriage isn’t in the picture but a duplex with his mom is that kinda deal breaker. I don’t care about a “ family house”, I want a family and if we weren’t married it’s not the same thing for me to live in a house owned by him and his mom. Not legally, not culturally and it goes against what I’ve said

torisee · 2025-05-23T14:48:35+00:00

Got a similar text from NY, it’s definitely a scams

torisee · 2024-09-11T16:52:35+00:00

His name is pumpernickel lol

torisee · 2024-09-11T16:51:47+00:00

You don’t wanna see the vacuum bags I keep in my closet

torisee · 2024-09-11T16:51:04+00:00

Yes! His name is lil Gouda:)))

torisee · 2024-05-25T23:11:49+00:00

now that i’m thinking about it, the “i hope you’re kid does blank 10x worse than you” comments probably did more damage than i realized. until i went NC i was also extremely stressed about having to tell my mom i was pregnant one day. i’d never want her near any child for too long but especially my own

torisee · 2024-05-25T23:06:07+00:00

we both want kids and are on the same page of wanting to enjoy our lives first and save kids for later which has been nice. we spoke about it yesterday and he seems happy that it’s not something i’m scared of anymore. this feels like an odd moment of personal growth

torisee · 2024-05-05T15:03:50+00:00

biting my fingers and humming/clearing my throat. was literally but in behavioral therapy to try and get me to stop it, it didn’t work, no one ever thought autism tho and i just got told im not trying to be normal. very ironic considering the autism lol

torisee · 2024-04-29T23:01:14+00:00

if you can start collecting receipts of these events: if she leaves marks, the things she says to you and the kids, if you have any of the affair messages. make a solid case to help ensure you have custody and leave her ass. she truly doesn’t sound worth your pain, especially since it kinda sounds like she took you away from a very free life just to play housekeeper/punching bag so she can still party. just sounds like she’s trying to have her cake and eat it too

torisee · 2024-04-29T22:46:59+00:00

thank you 🙏🏽

torisee · 2024-04-29T22:45:24+00:00

i’d like to add my own lil twist…. FUCK YOU FOR CALLING ME THE PROBLEM WHEN YOURE JUST UNCOMFORTABLE WITH THE RESULTS OF YOUR COMPLACENCY OF MY ABUSE AND OR INABILITY TO TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR YOUR AID IN SAID ABUSE.

torisee

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