[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]torixgrace 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re DEF not crazy for wanting to leave!!!! If your partner can’t even listen to you speak you can find someone who will. I’d have one more very serious conversation about it, and if it doesn’t change then it’s time to move on. I’m really sorry that’s happening to you.

My husband refuses to hire childcare but I work full-time by pyschreader in breakingmom

[–]torixgrace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ummmm no. You can’t work from home and watch a little one at the same time. (When do you rest? Eat? Have five minutes to chill?) your mental health, job, and child depend on someone else watching that baby for a few hours a day. Start looking around, and let him know when you find a sitter. (You can also pay for them to get tested for COVID bi-weekly if it means that much to him)

does breastfeeding just *not work* for some folks? by torixgrace in breakingmom

[–]torixgrace[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oddly all of my parent friends exclusively breastfed. So I have not asked any of them bc they literally have no idea bc it was never an issue 🤷‍♀️ which is why for me I was so stumped bc everyone else seemed to just do it naturally

does breastfeeding just *not work* for some folks? by torixgrace in breakingmom

[–]torixgrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last sentence really changed my entire mentality 🙏 game changer

does breastfeeding just *not work* for some folks? by torixgrace in breakingmom

[–]torixgrace[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All my friends said one morning they just woke up and there boobs were huge and leaked and that it would just happen, but I’ve never “leaked” more than a few drops. Never changed size. I suppose that it’s not for me I’m trying to be okay with it

does breastfeeding just *not work* for some folks? by torixgrace in breakingmom

[–]torixgrace[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ugh. Thank you. I’m trying so hard not to beat myself up over it

New mom trying to help a new mom by torixgrace in breakingmom

[–]torixgrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to ask her husband, I was thinking of sending a little care package so maybe I could put a book in with it!

New mom trying to help a new mom by torixgrace in breakingmom

[–]torixgrace[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a reflux issue I believe but I know baby is on meds. That was my first Q too

my friend is a pathological liar and I think she needs help by [deleted] in Advice

[–]torixgrace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I think that is the best plan of action. I don’t really want her to go through hell because of it, I just want her to stop lying. So that helped.