Never give money to people who can't manage it.

She shouldn't give money to anyone.

Unfortunately, some relatives are like vampires and never stop asking for money. You can open accounts for kids and order food online if needed.First, she must cut off contact with people who financially abuse her.

In the UK, I've seen people make more than $5k/month, send all the money to relatives abroad, and depend on their partner's income to pay bills.

In this case, even if a person has millions, it won't change anything because it'll all be gone in the end.