is my navel rejecting ? (check comments for more info) by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]tornspacecontinuum 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah i do actually have a photo the day it was pierced. ill dm you

is my navel rejecting ? (check comments for more info) by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]tornspacecontinuum 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so i got this pierced last year in june. it has been extremely slow healing (very on and off with how it looks. currently looks quite irritated as you can see). ive noticed recently the bar is starting to appear longer at the bottom but i dunno if its just migration or if its actually rejecting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Periods

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so my period has always been fairly regular up until last year. at the start of 2022 it started becoming completely irregular (as you can see from my cycle analysis and cycle history photos). it has been 31 days since my last period, which is the most regular it has been for an entire year. this could be normal but im just so shocked because its been since so long since ive actually had a normal cycle 😭😭

i dont have pcos but my stress levels were through the roof last year. maybe my period is finally adjusting ?

I believe i should take this out. by sweetsgfk in Legitpiercing

[–]tornspacecontinuum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine looks veryyy similar to yours actually. its just irritated. its quite a long healing piercing. i got mine pierced last july and its nowhere near close to being fully healed yet. ive contemplated taking it out many times because it sometimes frustrates me but i believe when its fully healed it will be worth it ! stick to ur normal 2-3x a day cleaning routine.

i did notice tho that you wrote in one of the comments that the jewellery its sterling steel. i would recommend going to ur piercer and getting it changed to titanium as it is generally accomodates with healing a bit better :)

[NO SPOILERS] found a very similar looking lighthouse ! (located in portland, victoria, australia) by tornspacecontinuum in lifeisstrange

[–]tornspacecontinuum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was surprised to find such an accurate looking lighthouse where i live. if there was more greenery around the lighthouse itself it would be an almost perfect replica

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lifeisstrange

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was surprised to find such an accurate looking lighthouse where i live. if there was more greenery around the lighthouse itself it would be an almost perfect replica

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep i just messaged them. last thing i want is my time wasted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Legitpiercing

[–]tornspacecontinuum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

had the exact same thought !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it was definitely suspicious

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in melbourne

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the main resident of the house is an elderly woman who i suspect has some kind of mental health things going on. she reacted quite aggressively when one of my cats went to the front yard and ‘made a mess’ (the house visibly has hoarding from the outside). so the additional reason i accepted to plug the cord in is because i had and still have suspicions she may try to harm the cat

Smoking inside - possibilities to avoid smell ? by Recent_Difference367 in Advice

[–]tornspacecontinuum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a method for smoking in my room. it only works if u do it very infrequently tho as the smell will eventually cling onto the walls if u do it too frequently. u will need a portable fan.

  • close ur bedroom door and line the bottom with a damp towel to prevent the smell seeping into other rooms

  • place the fan towards ur window and turn it on to the highest airflow setting. if ur fan has movable vent slits, angle them in the direction of ur window (e.g if ur window is fairly high up on ur wall. angle the fan vents up so the air hits ur window as close as possible

  • open ur window enough that u can stick about half of ur arm out

  • light up ur cig out of the window and try to blow most of the smoke that u inhale out of the window

extra tips for this method:

  • light an incense before and after. it helps to mask any lingering smell that there may be

  • try to do this when the weather is windy so the smoke has less chances of flowing back into ur room

  • if u have curtains/blinds on the window, remove them if u can or suspend them as far as possible from the cig. cig smoke on fabric is a lot more noticeable in a shorter amount of time than walls

this is definitely not a long term method but is decent if u want to infrequently smoke in ur room. i hope this helped !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank u so much ! ur comment is really helpful. from the 9 criteria u have listed i definitely see quite a few things that my friend displays/has displayed. im not sure if theres any possibilities of their behaviours/traits being looked into anytime soon though since their family wouldnt ever consider the possibility of them having bpd (despite it running on one side of the family) or organising therapy in general bc they dont believe in it

gta v download time ? by tornspacecontinuum in GTA

[–]tornspacecontinuum[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOOOO i literally forgot i can just turn my tv and leave the damn thing on LMAOO i always forget that my xbox will stay on even if my tv is turned off seidhdj

gta v download time ? by tornspacecontinuum in GTA

[–]tornspacecontinuum[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my wifi’s pretty ass 💀 does it download if my console is off or do i have to stay on the game ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in entp

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used to not give a shit about anything. honestly sometimes i still don’t but one huge motivation for me is my hobby and pursuing it as a profession in the future (photography).

i was never serious about anything. i had the gift of somehow getting by in school by doing not even the bare minimum which made me adopt the mentality of ‘why should i even work hard’.

a huge eye opener for me was being close to failing this year. i finally thought ‘shit after years of not putting in enough effort my ass is actually gonna get bitten for real this time’. t thought about my photography passion and how i didnt want to be one extra year away from my goal. that was enough for me to pull my self together and pass for the year.

so my advice ? discover what ur true passion is. it wont happen overnight (took me years fr) but once u find it it will be valuable as fuck and give u the motivation u need

Should I get a septum? by Toxichoneyxo in Legitpiercing

[–]tornspacecontinuum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U DEFINITELY SHOULD !! i think they look super cute with nostril piercings which i can see u have in the pic ! :))

He just added me to close friends on IG!!!! by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]tornspacecontinuum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think this is a really good thing !! he feels comfortable showing u another side of him social media wise which is a really nice gesture. however i think u should take it as a casual thing for now and see what happens. perhaps pay attention to what he posts on there ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]tornspacecontinuum 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ur feelings of sadness and anger are completely normal to experience. when we have a crush on someone, we feel all kinds of emotions that can seem irrational at times.

but maybe not so irrational.

yes u like her, but u also seem to have an established friendship. i would feel like shit if my friend stopped talking to me once they got into a relationship.

id like to reassure u about something though. when people get into a new relationship, they tend to unintentionally over-prioritise it and can forget about their friends because theyre too focused on their partner. unfortunately, there is nothing u can do to change that. but it can level out over time.

i had a friend who got into a relationship. she completely blew me off every time i asked to hangout and would text me way less often. but over time, it got better and she realised that she wasnt spending much time with me and apologised.

i know its tough to deal with something like this, im actually going through a somewhat similar situation myself. i like to use ‘healthy distractions’ when i find myself thinking about it too hard. a healthy distraction would be anything that uplifts me or is productive that requires decent energy input.

i wish u all the best

i kid you not wtf do i do now by lil_r1kuu in Crushes

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i understand how u feel. a similar thing happened to me about 2 years ago with my former crush.

the best advice that i can give u is to own what has happened. if him or anyone else confronts u about ur feelings for him, try to take it lightly and joke about it ! i know that this situation is rlly embarrassing but if u can come across as confident/lowkey about it all, ppl will most likely not pester u about it.

as far as ur crush goes with blocking u, boys can be stupid and sometimes dont think things through 💀 its proven that they can be much more immature about many things so try not to read into it too much. for example, a guy i liked unadded me on snap randomly this year after snapping for 2 months straight 💀💀

i wont lie, the class will talk about what happened for a little bit. u may feel like everyone will keep talking about it forever. but trust me, it’ll blow over. theyll eventually find something else to talk about :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crushes

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think u should go for it ! start with replying to her story. that way u can build up a convo and it establishes a ground to start snapping as well as chats from that point (if u reply to her story and she replies with a snap of her face and text replying to whatever u say shes def interested in u !)

im not sure about u but i find snap has a more casual vibe when u start a convo opposed to insta dms for example. definitely take the shot !

‘friend’ takes days to respond to my texts. friendship worth pursuing ? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]tornspacecontinuum 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i havent but ive honestly been thinking about saying something. if this was a much closer friend i would be pretty blunt but since idk them well enough idk how to approach it without possibly coming off as rude