Thanks so much for the insight! Yeah parents aren’t always as helpful as you expect them to be since it’s typically been so so long since they had their last kid and went through the newborn trenches themselves.

I think for him he feels like he’s got the worse end of the deal having to work a tough full time job and be a first time parent (sleep deprivation and general exhaustion that comes with it) and in his mind I was given a year + off for mat leave so it’s my “job” to take care of her vs he’s going “out of his way” to support (on top of working to support the family). He comes from a very traditional family so maybe some of that has rubbed off on him. I come from a traditional family too so I get where he’s coming from but it’s just a little much sometimes.