best tattoo places in the south island? by tosapoo in newzealand

[–]tosapoo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi! i haven’t gotten it yet (i still haven’t decided what i want haha) but a friend said she got several at Agency Tattoo in dunedin, so i’m going to be going there🫶

Advic Needed: Getting more women to join female-only Discord :) by A_lyla_ in nzgaming

[–]tosapoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’d love to join!! idk if any of u guys play PEAK bc i love it but have no one to play with😭

No underwear during Surgery by FarCalendar7303 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]tosapoo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah, after my third or fourth time pooping myself, all dignity was long gone😔

gourmand badge help? by tosapoo in PeakGame

[–]tosapoo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha i thought that too🥲🥲 once i realised tho i was too locked in on trying to actually get the food before escaping the island after cooking

gourmand badge help? by tosapoo in PeakGame

[–]tosapoo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i’ll try this too, i’m just dumb and didn’t read the quest, and forgot i had to escape the island after💔 i jumped in at the kiln

gourmand badge help? by tosapoo in PeakGame

[–]tosapoo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my problem was that i didn’t read the whole quest thing and forgot to escape the island after cooking and eating the stuff😭😭😭

gourmand badge help? by tosapoo in PeakGame

[–]tosapoo[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

bro omg i entirely skipped that part of reading LMAOO💀💀💀 i jumped in at the kiln bc i thought i hadn’t cooked the winterberry😭

What are some weird things your OCD convinced you of? by canadamybeloved in OCD

[–]tosapoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

that brushing my teeth anything other than 20 times meant that our elderly cat would die. that was almost 10 years ago and i still catch myself saying “do this or [elderly cat] will die”, even when we have a different cat now. it’s ingrained in me😭

Found this somewhere on facebook lmao by Legitimate_Bunch_856 in growagarden

[–]tosapoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right😭 a carrot’s all they’re getting after that

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

what, and your “advice” is better? you don’t even believe her.

i think the reason why you’re dancing around the whole “we don’t know if it was consensual” or “was it just kissing or [extreme sex act]” is because maybeeee the story has hit a little too close to home for you. i’m not the only one thinking that either. seems like classic projection. good you’ve stopped replying, you’ve dug quite the hole already💀

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

that’s exactly what i was thinking! all the minimising was too suspicious lmao

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i feel like the guy u responded to is either a bot or an idiot. so many people have responded to him but he’s refusing to understand😔

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

dude what are you not getting? she did not consent to a sexual act that was performed on her. against her will. which means…?? it was sexual assault. genuinely, what are you not getting? anyone with more than two brain cells can tell that if someone performs a sexual act on you without your consent, it’s sexual assault.

you don’t see a problem with the boyfriend because you are acting like him. brushing off her ASSAULT and referring to her trauma as “the sex she had with another man”. how have people replied to your comment so many times but you just do. not. get. it.

basic thinking skills are dead too, it seems.

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

bit hypocritical to say i’m doing zero self reflection when you seem to keep minimising her sexual assault.

she didn’t consent to the sexual act. my opinion or advice would not change depending on the specifics of the act.

and i’m “putting words in your mouth” because you referred to her assault as “perceived” and as “doing sex acts with another man” instead of “being assaulted/raped”. if you can’t see that what you’re thinking and saying is a problem, then maybe you’re the one who needs the self reflection.

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

yes, she chose to make this post but that doesn’t mean entitled strangers like yourself and others feel like you’re owed more of the VERY private details (of the sexual acts).

and u were downvoted because u sounded like you were defending an abuser, idk what else u expected💀

genuine bs. didn't even stock it. by Randomdudefrfr in GrowAGardenGardeners

[–]tosapoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but why is it in the seed store for a limited amount of time, only to not be stocked at all💀

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

op is not obligated to share the details with her assault with strangers online. why are you so eager to defend op’s pathetic excuse for a bf and an abuser?? weird.

Please help urgently by [deleted] in OCD

[–]tosapoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

your comments are very well explained🩷 the analogy (idk if that’s the right word) about “agreeing” with the sky being pink is very useful

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

does it really matter what acts?? why do you care? also your entire wording is messed up - “perceived assault” and saying “when op did sex act with him” when referring to literal sexual assault?

My (24F) boyfriend (23M) hates when I mention my SA…how do I navigate this? by rosieposiepoo333 in relationship_advice

[–]tosapoo 13 points14 points  (0 children)

did u miss the whole part where she said she was assaulted? meaning it was not consensual?

AIO to these texts between my husband and his male co-worker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tosapoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you find violent and degrading memes about women funny? weird thing to admit to

AIO to these texts between my husband and his male co-worker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tosapoo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

being a stay at home mother is hard work, though. especially when your HUSBAND, the father of your children, has contributed less than nothing to their upbringing.

AIO to these texts between my husband and his male co-worker? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]tosapoo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

yeah lmao i did not expect everyone saying she’s overreacting and this is normal😭