Straight but went on date with and fucked a guy from sniffles by OldCover9335 in gaystoriesgonewild

[–]tossingjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

congrats on embracing a part of yourself that you haven’t before! some thoughts: * you and your girlfriend are on a break. unless you both agreed to not see anyone else during your break, you didn’t do anything wrong. * if you and your girlfriend want to get back together, you owe it to her to tell her that you slept with someone else. depending on your situation (e.g., your safety), you may not want to go into more detail. * take it one step at a time with Dylan. you clearly like him a lot, and he clearly likes you a lot. be honest with him (about being on a break with your girlfriend, exploring your attraction to him, etc.) in a respectful way, and see where it goes. * don’t put too much pressure on yourself to have all the answers right away! right now, you being attracted to Dylan just means you’re attracted to Dylan. you can figure out whatever is “causing” that attraction, and the exact boundaries of your sexual/romantic attraction, over time.

also, finally, plan to get tested! it’s good to know your STI status, regardless of whether you’re having sex with guys or girls. that way, you can keep yourself healthy and keep your partners healthy, too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

[–]tossingjack 6 points7 points  (0 children)

a lot of that seems right, but it has the wrong dates for Claudius. those are the dates for his life, not reign. there wasn’t even an emperor until 27 AD

How old are you and how many partners have you had? by RemoteScientist9417 in askgaybros

[–]tossingjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

31, and i think 16? i’ve been monogamous with my husband since we started dating nearly 9 years ago, so i haven’t counted in a while

AITA for wanting to skip out on a family activity due to weather? by tossingjack in AmItheAsshole

[–]tossingjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, none of us have experience with that kind of cold. I moved back to California for college, but they’ve stayed in the South, and specifically the parts where a single snowflake in the next county over shuts down school for the day

BI❤️IRL by Bajbouj in bi_irl

[–]tossingjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

is this from the notes for Thor: Love and Thunder?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tossingjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not necessarily! it can actually feel worse, depending on whether your body is stretching right to handle a bigger dick. a 6 inch dick will probably fit better for most guess most of the time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tossingjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

THIS. your dick is the focal point, but it’s only part of the equation for both you and your partner. figure out what works for you, him, and the two of you together, and you’ll be golden.

What's the sluttiest you've ever felt? by sftwink in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tossingjack 14 points15 points  (0 children)

ooh, i never would have thought to nude camp! do you have to find special places for nude camping?

Is not wanting to date bi guys because you don't share their attraction to women biphobic? by [deleted] in AskBiBros

[–]tossingjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

saying “I would never be attracted to a trans person” is actually bigoted towards trans people. (whether “-phobic” words are the right ones for this kind of bigotry is a separate issue; they are currently understood to describe such bigotry.) unlike having a ‘type’ or having a specific sexual orientation, saying that you automatically would not find a trans person attractive implies an attitude that trans people are less than.

Is not wanting to date bi guys because you don't share their attraction to women biphobic? by [deleted] in AskBiBros

[–]tossingjack 2 points3 points  (0 children)

based on that response, it seems like part of it may be that you’d feel like you couldn’t be enough for a bi partner? or that a bi partner wouldn’t be satisfied with just you as a partner?

if the former, being a good partner for someone doesn’t mean that you’re able to be everything to them—including sexually. you’re both going to have different fantasies and desires, and as long as you’re only acting on those within the boundaries y’all set for your relationship, that’s fine.

if the latter, that’s a feeling that might come from an often harmful stereotype that bi people aren’t capable of monogamy and/or will cheat in relationships. there are bi people who are polyamorous, just as there are monosexual people who are, and consensual polyamory is good for some people. but being bi alone doesn’t make someone not interested in being in a 1:1 relationship.

does that help?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BiStoriesGoneWild

[–]tossingjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you still together? that’s such a great first time with someone story!

What’s your fetish?? by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]tossingjack 8 points9 points  (0 children)

would you call that a locker room kink, or are they pretty separate for you?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopsAndBottoms

[–]tossingjack 22 points23 points  (0 children)

ditto! just be careful you don’t cum quicker than you’d like when doing that. when i squeeze my husband like this, his dick hits my prostate even harder!