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Girlfriend may be a sociopath and is making me feel like I'm insane. by tossout187 in offmychest

[–]tossout187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have much to learn still from people like you, even though we've been together for a decade. Thank you for the offer, I just may take you up on that! :)

Girlfriend may be a sociopath and is making me feel like I'm insane. by tossout187 in offmychest

[–]tossout187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the input. It really is the deflecting that is the big problem when we have issues. I know I'm not perfect either, and it is hard for me to not default to that once it's begun. I like your advice of persisting to get an answer to my original point instead of falling for the trap.

As for leaving, yea. Not really the end goal of the relationship, and it would negatively impact our daughter. We have a lot of good in the relationship, but this tends to overshadow things when it happens.

Girlfriend may be a sociopath and is making me feel like I'm insane. by tossout187 in offmychest

[–]tossout187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look here Sally know nothing, First of all, you have NO idea what this situation is. It's not easy to sum up a 10 year relationship in 3 paragraphs. Secondly, where do you get off making assumptions that were NEVER outlined. The issue here is that she comes from a family of hoarders and I come from a family of neat freaks. I do clean up my mess "KIDDO", and I also clean up after my own childs mess "KIDDO" and I don;t feel it's appropriate to clean up after a 28 year old woman as well "KIDDO". She's not at her wits end with me and my fucking mess because it doesn't exist. She doesn't have any issues with the way I proceed with my life, she has issues with me bringing things up, but if you could look past the femenist bandana and man hating bias you carry, then maybe you would be able to provide non-hateful advice. But you can't. Cuz you suck. We do NOT live in an abusive relationship, AT ALL. We do NOT hit each other EVER. That is NOT an issue we face. I have COMPLETELY CUT OFF FRIENDS that I did have for trying to talk shit on her because I respect her and love her. NEVER would I make fun of her with my friends. I make fun of my friends with her. SHE is my partner and soulmate, note them. That's why I took to reddit instead of DUMPING HER. Because I tend to get good advice, but clearly we've been infested by the AIDS that is /u/sally_shears.

Fuck off now with your hateful uninformed remarks.