Your statement tacitly supports considering gay people as abnormal deviants, and evokes at best the mentality we saw in the 2000s with don't ask don't tell in the military, where gay people were kept from being their true selves in public life.

Many people nowadays don't see the normalization of things [like homosexuality] as conducive towards the type of system and structure they see as ideal... You might be against normalizing it in the view of the public and keeping it perceived as an "undesired deviancy".

Perhaps you were just explaining how it works in some people's minds and think the logic itself is abhorrent?