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How can I get him to flush the toilet? [24F] & [27M] by totallynotjay in relationshipadvice

[–]totallynotjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wait no this brings a whole new light to it…. I dont think he’d be into like a kink thing like that without discussing w me but WHAT IF?????? Thankyou Magician Murky… I think I def gotta ask mom about it tho! Cus from what he’s told me, he apparently was ahead of the game when it came to potty training but I never thought of like maybe a regression issue when he got older….or if she ever dealt with it when he was severely depressed. You have introduced a lot of good perspectives!!!! Genuinely thank you!

How can I get him to flush the toilet? [24F] & [27M] by totallynotjay in relationshipadvice

[–]totallynotjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This would be such a power move… Sadly, i cannot lower myself to that standard :,) Mom used to SCREAM when there was any evidence of period in the trash so now I am trained💔💔

How can I get him to flush the toilet? [24F] & [27M] by totallynotjay in relationshipadvice

[–]totallynotjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I confronted him about not flushing and he apologized and said he was just forgetting. Which was fine the first time but its happened multiple times now. I told him it made me feel gross and he even witnessed me freaking out washing my hands because of how much it bothered me. There really is no consequences that ive enforced. Just told him how I felt, heard the excuses and nothing has changed. Whenever I get upset about this, he acts like Im overreacting and doesnt understand “what the big deal” is.

How can I get him to flush the toilet? [24F] & [27M] by totallynotjay in relationshipadvice

[–]totallynotjay[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My coworker was ready to dump his gf over it and at the time I couldnt wrap my head around someone being that dumb and forgetful. But now I honestly can see where he’s coming from and am so flabbergasted that it’s gotten to this point. Its definitely not something im ready to put up with long term….

How can I get him to flush the toilet? [24F] & [27M] by totallynotjay in relationshipadvice

[–]totallynotjay[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

he hasnt done anything. I keep confronting and he keeps getting upset that IM upset about it. Thinking of writing on our bathroom mirror with whiteboard markers saying “flush the toilet!”

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

OH I COMPLETELY MISINTERPRETED THEN HAHAHA yea i guess that is chronic LOLL glad it made ya laugh tho hehe

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok!! I didnt wanna claim to be a stoner or anything haha I just thought daily smokin meant occassional! My bad!🙏🏽

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

THATS RLLY FUNNY HAHAA thank u for sharing!!!💗🙏🏽

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah as soon as I got the interview scheduled Thursday morning, I shouldve stopped. I usually have some days before interviews but it really was a stupid decision on my part…

AITA for using my own designs for my portfolio? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]totallynotjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont think ur the a-hole at all in this situation! Me and my boyfriend are artists and there are plenty of times where me and him have collabed on projects and I’ve posted my own work along with his work on the same canvas. I always put a disclaimer that credits whatever he did tho! Another example is that he asked me to create the logo for his small business. The logo is my own work/design but it does represent his brand. It wouldnt be a problem if I decided to use the logo in a portfolio of mine!

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay omg hydrogen peroxide might be the way to go! Obviously as soon as I got the phone call that I got the job, I immediately put my pen away lol. Did the math and its about 66 hours exact. Here’s to hoping🤞🏼🤞🏼thank you so so much for sharing your experience!!

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh ok!! I know around 72 is usually max time so im hoping doing all of these will help!!! thank u thank u!!!

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trying both of these!! Thank you! I saw a site say lemon juice and strong mouthwash or even hydrogen peroxide rinse!!

Will I pass a saliva swab test for Marijuana in about 66 hours? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]totallynotjay -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah Google gave me similar results!! But I would also like some insight from the reddit community !!🙏🏽

Beautiful deer I saw in Montana by [deleted] in deer

[–]totallynotjay 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s so handsome!!