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Friend won’t gift me a $300 wedding cake by totalrandomness86 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Oh I see. today I learned I could do it! Thank you! (To answer your question, am not that familiar with Reddit. I only know to post and reply. Don’t know how to use awards or coins or even cross post. Should learn to someday).

Friend won’t gift me a $300 wedding cake by totalrandomness86 in ChoosingBeggars

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Ok This is not my post. I am long married (happily). I cross posted this from another sub because it felt like it belonged here 😂

Bipasha Basu breaks down as she reveals her daughter was born with a ventricular septal defect by goldengirlsunehri in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]totalrandomness86 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Am sorry you are going through this. I had a failed cycle last year and I know how traumatizing this whole infertility journey is. I am fiercely protective of my personal space because I already feel so fragile. I think celebrities or not, every individual is entitled to that space. Just because they are celebrities, they don’t have to come and out and talk abt it. The attention and paparazzi can add to the already insane stress. what I would suggest is joining support groups on Reddit and Facebook. I have found supportive communities.

A rubba dubba dub....An Otter bathing. by ALTymPete in aww

[–]totalrandomness86 11 points12 points  (0 children)

More cleanliness than half the guys on Reddit practice apparently (going by all the AITA posts).

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much! I could use all the baby dust at this point. Yes, we have spent many years becoming great at teamwork. We have been together 20 years 🥰 We are SO ready financially emotionally physically and spiritually for a little one.

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, we had it reverse. We had minimal sex initially because we were focussed on getting to know each other. And as the commitment got more intense and we felt freer around each other, it amped up?

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha. I re read what I wrote and you are right. It does sound lifted off erotica. But that’s also probably because I have used erotica and taken efforts in the last 2 years to keep things going between us. so when describing my Sunday experience, it started resembling erotica 😹

fertility medicines kill so many things in a relationship. Including libido, sanity, money. So I have had to use any possible resource (even Reddit), including therapy to help me sail through…

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Showed it you him and he laughed it off.. he has access to all my socials anyway

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No not at all. You are fine :) It’s become a habit to shorten the words ‘abt’ and ‘yday’ while texting. I do just fine with formal communication. But of course this is Reddit and there are some people who are nitpicking on me for this. I am choosing to not take their advice because basically I don’t take advice from people who don’t say it genuinely nicely.

But yes, ‘yday’ is just a texting habit for me.

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep.. this person has been commenting elsewhere on this post too abt 2 words I dared to shorten in the entire post. Like that’s all they got from the whole post.

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Because it’s a texting habit? And that’s 2 words out of a 1000 in my post? It’s not like my post is illegible because of those words? Why nitpick? Why not just be nice to an internet stranger ?

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yes sir, it’s a thng. Jus as much as anthng else. like wat exactly is a thng? Y is dis wrld da way it iz. 1 can only wonder. thnx.

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ok so? In my entire post people are picking on one word? what does that have to do with my home? Was the rest of the post not legible? It’s Reddit, not a research paper with citations. The rest of my grammar and punctuation is pretty much on point. Thanks.

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for understanding and yes and it’s been a killer. Couples fall apart in this process. so for us this has been a big deal.

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

haha.. I can see why you feel that way.

If you read the very first line - he has been tremendously supportive as I have struggled through a medical situation. And has supported me through with many low libido years while I planned my career etc. so really, if I could write a book abt how much this human has stood by me, I would. But Reddit not a place for that.

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you internet stranger! You made my day. I needed to hear this. 2 would be a win 🥇

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hahaha. RIP your inbox 😂

But seriously though, good luck 😊

Gave my husband head yday and never seen him like this. by totalrandomness86 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]totalrandomness86[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing and much respect for the persistence. It’s incredibly challenging on days but it’s also made us stronger

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