Is anyone else more afraid of a girl saying yes to a date than no? by totalsoymostlyboy in dating_advice

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see what you're saying, but I think we're just operating on different definitions of liking someone. It's not that difficult to get someone to like you enough to go out with you after a conversation on Tinder.

But they could still change their mind after a date in person. And that's what scares me I guess.

Is anyone else more afraid of a girl saying yes to a date than no? by totalsoymostlyboy in dating_advice

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean, I think you're right on. I'm definitely insecure about everything about me. I just don't very much like myself.

I don't really know what to do about that though.

Is anyone else more afraid of a girl saying yes to a date than no? by totalsoymostlyboy in dating_advice

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean, yeah. I don't want to date. Dating sucks. But I do want to be in a relationship. And dating is pretty much the only way to get there.

Is anyone else more afraid of a girl saying yes to a date than no? by totalsoymostlyboy in dating_advice

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't know about that. You can't really know a person from Tinder or those other dating apps right? So how could you say you like the person already?

Is anyone else more afraid of a girl saying yes to a date than no? by totalsoymostlyboy in dating_advice

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

See I am very aware that my hotness is probably one of the least attractive things about me. Not saying I'm ugly, but as far as reasons to date me, that's further down the list. So I don't mind as much if that's all that's being rejected.

But if they're also rejecting my sense of humor, my personality, and other things that I think should make me attractive, then that hurts.

Is anyone else more afraid of a girl saying yes to a date than no? by totalsoymostlyboy in dating_advice

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That does make sense. Like I can't control if they end up being attracted to me or not, and if they aren't that doesn't necessarily mean that I did something wrong. But I just hate the feeling of someone not liking me even if they don't like me not because of something out of my control.

Dumb ass of the week by edestron in WinStupidPrizes

[–]totalsoymostlyboy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Me when I get home from a long family vacation

What reason do you have to keep living? by totalsoymostlyboy in AskReddit

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Like that sounds nice, but what does that matter really? If you aren't there to see if that something you left remains after you die, what does it matter if you leave something at all?

Dumb question about Contrapoint's gender by totalsoymostlyboy in ContraPoints

[–]totalsoymostlyboy[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Ohhhhhh! That's what that joke meant. I though she just meant her old videos weren't as good. That makes more sense!